Chick seemed classy, and also had a description about being into old fashioned dates and flowers blabla, and is hot. Therefore my opener...
I feel like I went too soon for the close and the frame isn't "we frame" and the convo isn't going anywhere, like bit gamey, and also her last reponse puts me in to the chaser frame. Meeh
How to turn this around, or what to say, what frame to take on? Thanks
As a sidenote...My texts often look like this on dating apps. Girl responds to opener well, maybe 3-4 excahnges and then I go for the close. I may be not patient enough or just want to get off the app
I will add the screenshots here, so it makes sense.
Basically I hung out with this girl for a while, and realized she ́s my type after a while and asked her out, rejected me month and a half ago. Not in a direct way, but indirect, I never got a straight no in person. I tried flirting after that, and moving it forward, she would play dumb or ignore or dismiss it. I started ignoring her and after 3 weeks, she reached out asking why am I ignoring her?
I told " am not. Why would it bother you?"
To which she responded "Because I didn ́t do anything for you to do so..." etc. Here we reconnected here just for 2-3 exchanges.
Next day, I see that I am added to the close category of friends in her insta story for some reason, I see the green outline around her profile. I watch her story and don ́t react.
Next day, I am sharing this story from this other girl, who is my partner and who posted how we won a championship in dancing competition (it ́s my hobby and what I do). And then she reaches out saying congrats...
The thing is, I am out my town now and will be for couple of weeks and she seems to want to reconnect, but don ́t know how to play the long game, I was never good at it...Like I want to keep it low investment, nothing too persuasive, not saying anything that fits her agenda etc. Just keeping it alive. So I should post stories definitely, but what about text game?
What ́s the best way to proceed and answer? Thank you
