So I made the dumbest mistake possible. I've met this girl a week ago, let's call her Sarah. We've been texting, arranged a date for next week. For context, we didn't hooked up yet.
Last night, I went out, hooked up with another girl, also Sarah.
Went to send her a That was :fire: + our nude pic (found out it works well). And boom, I've accidently, sent the text to the first Sarah.
Her reply was "WHAT!?!?!?"
Now what? How to proceed here? Is it even possible to recover from this shitshow I caused?
Met this girl at the bar. Set went decently well, but I had to bail to some afterparty. Got phone number. I don't have screenshots, since this is on foreign language so I'll write it down. This is the interaction.
-Sincord
H: Hi there ;)
-What trouble you've been causing since we met
H: Just finished the walk, going to cook a lunch. Have some music lessons later, and then I need to study for college, exams are coming next week.
-Just finished workout, looking fit for that event tonight. Any concert soon
H: Nice, what event? I'm actually thinking about quiting band. Not sure if I can make it all timewise. And I've got a bit burned out by it.
-Classic, we stopped making music for similar reasons 2 years ago.
H: You were musician?
-Ye, I was. Didn't we talked about this already...
H: I'm not entirely sure haahahahahaha.
-Guess we will have to repeat it soon.
H: hahahhaah maybe
-Let's turn that maybe into yes
H: Let's not ahahahahaahah
-You're right. You wouldn't be able to handle me
H: Look, it's not question whether I can or can't, but whether If I want to or not
How to salvage this? And proceed to close this girl? Need some serious help. I can't think of a comeback to this.
Recently I had a big streak of girls rejecting my soft close attempt. We would talk a bit, I would go for "Do you like wine", they would say yes, and when I say "We should split a bottle sometime soon", they would just go silent on me. I would follow it up with "if you're into that sort of thing" and get a "I'm not". Is it possible to recover from this? And how? Or should I just chuck those leads into garbage and move on?
Met this girl around summer. We usually have a drink and flirt a bit for fun when we meet accidently somewhere, until we go our separate ways. Last time was past friday, same thing happened, I went with some other girl in the end.
I decided to chat her up day after her birthday, out of boredom(stuck at home with flu+fever full week) and possibly to arrange something next week or so, when I get healthy. whole thing went kinda smooth, similar vibe like when we talk live, until I got silence on my last message (I think I was trying to be too smart for my own good).
How to re-engage her from here and proceed? (I've posted text-convo bellow)
Thanks
(PS. Had to use text message generator instead of screenshots, to translate it from my language. Entire convo happened over several days. My response time was equal to hers or longer)
Long story short, talked to some girl at the bar, we exchanged numbers, and we been sporadically texting 2-3 weeks trying to setup a date, but failing due to busy schedules.
Last night, she texted me that she wants to meet me around midnight (booty call I assume) "Can't, I have other plans" I replied. (I really had plans)
So today, we continued texting, she agreed that we meet in the next few days. Then while we were scheduling she suddenly out of nowhere threw me a "Actually, I'm not looking to meet anyone at the moment" curveball. This was the convo:
Me: Let's meet in the next few days (voice memo)
Her: Yes, Let's do it!
Me: What's your schedule like?
Her: Actually I don't want to meet up really, have some things in my head, I don't want to meet anyone at the moment.
Whole thing spiraled out of control, and I couldn't get things back on track no matter what. Rest of convo is me trying to uncover what the real objection is and solve it. She was throwing me a bunch of fakes, one after another. After I thought I had it figured out I blew up the "....ending things here would be anticlimactic" nuke on an fake objection (it flopped ofc)
As a last ditch effort I threw the "I feel you actually had a bad breakup recently" cold read and she started opening up again, saying that it was that what was actually troubling her.
Is there a way to salvage this? How should I proceed?
Thanks.
