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I know it was a terrible start and the "if you like my digital flowers" line was stupid af. I'm new to this and a retard. I know. Just wondering if you have any idea on how to save this conversation without saying "Sure!" and having to spend $90 on a fucking bouquet.
Out of 1000+ swipes, this is the only girl I've matched with that isn't 300lbs. She's actually quite attractive. I know 'abundance mentality' and all, but I don't want to fuck this up. I have terrible text game and have never had an actual date off Tinder, so I would appreciate any tips on how to steer this conversation. Her profile had 'hiking' as an activity and she had pics of her hiking with a dog, so that was my opener.
Sorry I messed up the title; Do I just have to accept, I'm too ugly for Tinder? I don't want to sound "blackpill" but at this point I'm not sure what to do. I'll keep this short and simple. I tried Tinder a year or two ago, as a complete rookie, and got no results. I uninstalled the app and thought nothing of it. I recently found the PWF YouTube channel and thought it was a goldmine, and it filled me with hope. Especially because I'm Indian (which gives you a huge disadvantage) but I saw Indian PE and was motivated af. I signed up on 3 apps. Tinder, Bumble, and Coffee Meets Bagel. I bought the premium version of all of them, so I could use various features that increase your chances of matching. I also followed all of the usual tips you see on PWF. Have pics with a dog, pics shouldn't look too posed, have activity photos that show you doing something fun/cool And so on. It's been about 2 weeks now, I've been swiping liberally. But I've gotten like 5 matches altogether (out of 1000+ swipes). 3 are way below my reasonable standards (I'm not a handsome guy, and I'm not asking to date an instagram model. These girls I matched with are like 400lbs) and of the 2 left, my opener "Hey Trouble" was left on read. Do I just have to accept, I'm too ugly for Tinder? I don't want to sound "blackpill" but at this point I'm not sure what to do. At first my thought was I don't have any shirtless pictures on my profile that show a jacked body, but then again neither does Indian PE and yet he still claims to have great success on Tinder. I want to upload my profile for review, but I'd prefer to stay anon. I hope I can get some wisdom or guidance without posting my profile.