It's been a bit back and forth with this girl, she qualified herself, was a bit sexualized already, I flaked on her once.
But this made me think if I should just go simply with tomorrow or also add sth about spanking her if she flakes next time.
I'd be inclined to add it, but she was all positive so far, I already flaked once and she offered an alternative.
Once it somewhat backfired at first point, so can be a bit unnecessarily risk.
If it was the second time or no alternative, I'd definitely add it.
Thoughts on that? Maybe overthinking but I like to optimize smaller things as well haha.
any blueprint for these young girls? I guess getting a number relatively early could be key but need to have some value for that... Another reason to improve my IG that could be a great segue as it works with less compliance.
I'm not a big fan of the "you can delete the app now" line but probably a variation of it could be good here.
Screenshots:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/playingfiredotcom/permalink/884723775202107/
Week report ft. Playing with fire in texts
Yo guys, I wanted to write a little appreciation on the journey I went through recently and had a little peak last week.
I've spent 2-3 active months in the PWF mastermind and my texting and results have improved drastically.
Roman Ivanov helped me with my bio to the extent that I had girls message me first with sexual intent, and Raj Brown was doing some absolute magic for a week and turning maybes into yeses. So here are some highlights.
I had 5 dates last week all from tinder. Some mixed screenshots from them.
First date didn't go that well, Indian PE told me I could've laid but didn't manage. The only girl I didn't pull/kiss btw.
2nd date was a girl for the second date, straight to mine cooking, she gave me an amazing massage and had her first period sex then risked being judged the next day in work just so she can have some more in the morning.
3rd date was definitely on me, I took things a bit extreme I guess, she actually came for the dick, too bad she didn't get it.
4th date was an interesting one as I was telling a friend on the way to not do dinner dates as it's not helping him for getting laid, he said ah you don't get these girls to fuck on the first date anyways. I just smiled, met this girl with a body that was unreal (nothing close to his pictures). I was actually hungry, so got some food with her, I know the texting was done solidly by the PE champ so just relaxed.
1 hour in the date, we were on my couch, some UMP knowledge came in handy before I started to discover her amazing body.
A funny thing that I had a phone call 2hours in, so my plan was to get her horny to wait that call in my bad. As learned from Alejandro I didn't go full way in, just licked her to the edge of cuming then told her to stay and wait for me and put on some clothes to not distract me too much. Fortunately, I managed to get back quite fast after and she's still wet waiting for her turn.
I think she had the hottest body I've ever been in.
5th girl
During the texting, it came in handy that I'm a follower of the SQL guys (Pierre de Sousa and Andrew Mioch - get their podcast asap) and could talk about sex toys I've never even seen lol. She was talking about her fantasies already before we met, and actually, the first date location was inside a sex shop. She gave a bit of resistance after, but we ended up at my place, and she blow my mind with some of the (teasing) skills she had. Also, trying out some of her new purchases made a lot of fun. She's been sending videos since.
Having gone on many platonic dates in the past before I can definitely see the difference before knowing these guys (UMP, PWF, SQL) and now.
I had a crazy pull that was temporarily interrupted by the police, I had a girl have a 20 minutes argument with her mother at 3am while shaving her legs in my bathroom, meeting a girl with the boyfriend during daygame after pulling her 2x a night a few nights earlier, finding a random girl after a club night from a friend's pull in the living room and having her give me a lingam massage after 15 minutes.
I had to ditch David Swift amazing guide on my first straight fuck date as she was soo ready that building more comfort would have potentially backfired (whole LR in the mastermind featuring Indian PE texting)
If you haven't done so, I strongly suggest checking out the PWF product, it's currently on sale. I wish I had my aff. link already haha.
29, had 1 longer relationship, lived together, single for a year - unfortunately, didn't check msg history properly so forgot a bit (we talked about multiple oral orgasms - she said it's non-existent)
texting went quite sexual, then backtracked then pushed for meeting her at my place, then meeting in public.
key points
Meeting:
good proximity, she was comfortable with me being close to her, touching lightly
I offered to get a drink in a park, she said it's illegal so we just went to my bar, not the best - so switched to witch bar.
In the bar, I was quite close to her but not much escalation, some stupid topics like travel
asked her about some of her adventurous stuff. She didn't really want to say much, just lowered the bar, but didn't work out well.
Somehow there was a comment that could've hinted she's still a virgin.
After the bar (probably an hour or slightly more)
I was clarifying it in a non-judgmental way.
when I went a bit on more sexual topics, she said she doesn't want to talk much about it. Actually, she brought up the madonna whore syndrome. I complimented and reassured her.
Then we got to in front of my place.
A rather weak pull attempt, it turns out she send already my photo and number and address to her friends haha.
So I suggest to just chill in the park nearby.
I keep talking about pussy-eating, she wants me to change topic. I said ok, we can talk about the weather. She asks if it's normal for me to talk about this so quickly I say yes and imply she's a bit 'weird' but not too hard.
in the park, great proximity, legs touching.
She said once I was too close, I was to kiss her neck lol
Took a bit back.
Then, when did a bit of hair pulling, we agreed that every girl likes hair pulling, choking, spanking. She said I pulled her hair a bit too hard.
Realized it's too much time, no progress properly. So told her we should meet another time. Seeding a cooking date, she's doubting my skill ah.
She kinda was in a still staying mood.
So I told her I need to piss, and walked back to my apartment, she came in no objections.
She didn't want any drinks. Music on my laptop. Got her take off her shoes.
Neck kiss, then makeout.
She said she should go soon. I just agreed. and kept on escalating.
Neck kissing got her going, she stopped my hands on her leg, just tried to work on her thighs and get some friction going for her clit but she was carefully not allowing it lol.
She said again she should go.
I disqualified sex a bit, kinda half-assed. Tried to put her hand on my boner, not working out.
She orders an uber.
It turns out she had no free evening, so I say she should cancel for Wednesday her class. Somewhat went with it, but not hard.
I smack her ass when she left, she's looking back like I shouldn't have.
Any feedback appreciated.
Most girls have this to some level, but my yesterday's date was quite extreme on this.
I told her being quite independent and ambitious but with the right guy he just wants to let it lose etc. She said it's like literally every girl then goes on that she's not like other girls, she's unique etc. but never really did or told anything to 'back it up',
this happened in a few occasions with her being special and had overall an incredibly strong frame.
How would you go about it? I don't want to go into arguments ofc but want to flip things a bit around as it's not a good dynamics.
What's the best way to stir this to the right direction?
"Do you like wine?"
"No, but I like sushi
do you like sushi?"
There was a message I saw that had some logic to say it's better just to get a drink for the first date.
I don't mind her asking and investing in a way, but it takes the leading part and also not the topics I want to discuss, like job and why I'm somewhere.
How do you handle and take back control? I'm more asking for some general guidelines or mindsets behind these type of interactions.
Also, her English is not the best I suppose, the R rated things didn't go that well, so it would be a bit harder to use some humor here as she might not understand.
I'm thinking " how bout we conduct this interview over a glass of wine lol"
Thanks! You guys rock
That's some game from her part haha. I'm thinking "Am I wrong?" to get her to qualify and get her out of the buyer frame. But it can come across a bit weak considering her bio and the 2nd message. thoughts?
