Hey guys. I would appreciate some comments on my bio.
Inside parenthesis () i make some comments for context. It goes like this.
Modest like no one else
Maker of the second best mojitos ever
Described by many friends as the perfect ("Name of a recurrent, very popular event in my city") waiting line partner.
I sell ("Name of a very well known beauty catalog store that no young person,let alone male would work for") products too.
I was just kidding, please stop asking me for face creams
Hey guys. I've translated the conversation as the original is in Spanish.
Me: I really need to know how those necklaces are called (She's wearing those VSCO girl necklaces on her picture)
Her: I can't remember
Me: It's ok as long as you wear it in our date ;)
Her: I lost it :(
Me: Damn, then i guess you've lost me too... Unless...
Her: Gif of a bunny saying ¿Huh?
So this girl had some cool hat on her pic, so I opened with "Nice hat, is that what you are wearing for our date?"
She replied with "Hahahahah i don't think so"
That's a pretty clear rejection isn't it? At that point is there even worth saying anything in response?
Hey guys. I downloaded tinder again after two years. I would say I had a decent amount of success back then.
This might seem a little premature to say considering I've just had my new account for less than 24 hours, but so far my response rate is 0% on my first 5 matches. With all of them I used something along the line of "Hey HerName, before anything else I have a question"
That usually worked really really well, around 90% response rate I would say, but now I've gotten no response from any of my first matches, has anyone noticed this?
Hey guys.
I matched with this really hot girl on bumble but I feel like I don't know how to close naturally. I kinda tried but she ignored it. Any feedback? Here's the translation.
H: Hello
M: Hello Carolina
I'm 95% sure we ran into each other the past weekend.
Were you at Arkadia on Saturday?
H: Hahahahahahahah noooo
That's a pretty confident guess but no
M: I can't believe it
Then i must let you know about some lost twin sister
H: Hahahahahah i can't believe you
And what were you doing in that mall?
M: I swear
Who knows, maybe you are the cool sister anyways
My friends made a plans to welcome me to Medellin, and we went there for a little while.
H: Hahahahaha I wish I had a sister my age
You are not from here?
M (voice note 1) : You can probably tell by my accent but no, I'm not completely new tho, i know a couple of nice places.
(voice note 2, which see seemed to ignore)By the way, do you know a place called T4?
H: Are you from Bogota?
M: No miss, but almost.
If you guess correctly you'll earn a prize
Quick disclaimer: This was just like an hour ago so it's not like the Convo is dead, i just want some input on how can I make things more interesting so I can close
Hey. There's this girl I meet on tinder, we have been on one date already, it went well but there was a misunderstanding that we fixed later by text. Three days after that(yesterday) i text her to invite her to another date. She agrees but when I wanted to set a day, she stopped responding. It's now about one day with no reply. What should I do?
I can't post screenshots because the conversation is not in english, so I'll translate here.
Me: (Her first and second name) how's it going
Her: Heyy
Her: Doing great. How about you?
Me: Cool, I'm doing great too, just finishing work. So, question, how do you feel about tacos?
Her: In what sense?
Her: Hahah
Me: i mean if it's a type of food you like
Her: Yes I like them
Me (Voice note): Look so I discovered this amazing taco place downtown and because you took me to the best wings I've had, it's only fair I take you to the best tacos I've had. What do you think.
Her: Yesss
Me: Great. So when does it work for you. Friday or Saturday.
And that was it. No reply.
Hello.
I meet a girl through tinder, she got my attention as she gives me the impression of being my type.
We talked and she gave me her ig to set our date. We talked about going for drinks (yeah she can drink, I'm not in the US) and she said " i would like that". The thing is that in every part of the logistics, even tho she did put effort on sorting things out, she never explicitly confirmed she agreed on these things. For instance, when she suggested that we should meet where she lives or where i live, and i said i preferred going to her, she didn't say "ok" , but instead just moved on to discussing the hour and stuff.
Because she didn't explicitly express her agreement on the terms of our date, i acted as if it was a reality and said things like "when we meet on Friday....blah blah" as to let her know I did perceive that way, offering a window for her to state the contrary, but she never did.
I tried to close with and "alright, until then" but she ignored and just corrected some trivial thing she said earlier. I tried to close again but with a joke, she just replied "hahahahahahahaha".
Point is, I'm frustrated because I feel like the date has been set clearly enough for me to come off as insecure if I ask, but not enough so I feel like it's going to happen. I feel like she's going to flake. Tomorrow will be the night before our date so I was thinking on confirming indirectly then, asking for the location were she lives to meet there.
I feel like she probably has not made up her mind yet and i can convince her if make things engaging when I text her to confirm tomorrow. But I don't know what to say to make her excited. Any recommendations?
Can't post screenshots because we didn't speak in english and there's voice notes, but general advice would be appreciated
Hey guys. I was talking to a girl on Tinder and she eventually gave me her number after agreeing to meet for an ice cream. (Don't mind the ice cream thing, it's just a strategy of mine).
We had the last exchange over WhatsApp via voice notes so I can't just post screenshots but I'll try to be accurate.
Her: Yes I'm down, we'll see on Friday (Contradictory?) I don't know how to get to (Place were we would meet) from my home but I'll figure it out.
Me: Ok cool, I think 6pm would work great. See you then.
Her: All right. Before I confirm tho, I don't know if I'll be working or something so I'll let you know before if can can do it. (Waiting for her to confirm last minute? Hell no!)
Me: Oh don't worry about it. Tell me how's your schedule looking so we can do it when you know for sure you'll be free. If I wait for you to confirm and you say no I won't have time to make other plans, so...
She left the voice note on read and didn't respond since yesterday afternoon.
Did I handle this poorly?
How should I reengage and after how much longer?
Thanks
Hey guys. This situation requires a little bit of general dating advice also.
I went on date with a really cute girl. Just my type physically. I thought it went perfect. She complimented my smell, my fashion, said my face is beautiful, that she really didn't want to leave, etc.
We kissed like three times. Had intense eye contact and she blushed all the time.
She texted me she got home safe and really liked meeting me. I texted her that I liked meeting too and wished her good night.
Two days later I texted her and had a brief playful exchange of like 3 messages before asking her out again. She said "Of course, I want to see you again".
I offered Wednesday or Thursday and we went with Wednesday.
When the day came, I texted her in the morning to tell her we should meet in the same place as before so we could get to the new place together.
She didn't reply. When it was like 5pm I called her and she didn't pick up. So I just sent a "?" Via WhatsApp.
Half hour later she sent a picture of her hand all red, and told me "I'm so sorry, like I told you the other day, I was looking for a job and I had two interviews, when I got home washed so many dishes and I totally forgot we were going to meet today. Look how my hands are.
I just responded with "Oh okay, no worries"
She then texted "I'm really really sorry (and tons of emojis) I really just forgot, sorryyyyyyy"
I said "well, maybe there's a way you can make it up to me" via voice note. She responded with an image of a kid with eyes wide open (Probably thought I meant it sexually). I texted "Well given your reaction I would say we are most likely not thinking the same thing". She said "HAHAHAHA well I can't know until you tell me" . I told her that as mentioned the other day, I could do it Thursday too (next day), after meeting with friends. She asked if we could do it next Wednesday. I asked if she could not do it next day.
She said "I'll let you know tomorrow early, I won't forget this time". I agreed.
Next day she texted me "Hey, is it okay if I just let you know when I'm free the previous day and you tell me if it works for you too? We don't have to go eat or anything, just get together".
At this point, with her forgetting, not offering to reschedule directly, avoiding meeting next day to make it up, trying to postpone a whole week and then leaving it in the air with that "I'll let you know". I just decided to make sure I won't waste time , so I sent a voice note with the most assertive, non butthurt, chill voice that was humanly possible saying "That'd be all right, but first I want to ask you directly if you honestly do feel like hanging out, if you don't want to, that would be completely okay, just let me know".
The voice note appears as if she never played it and she never replied. It's been like 5 days now.
You can do a trick on whatsapp where you can listen to a voice note without leaving it on read, she probably did that. But that changes nothing.
What should I do? I not dumb or delusional, she seemed so so so much into me on our date, one would think she was more into me than me into her.
Should I just wait a couple of weeks for her to reach out? Should I reengage? If that's the case, how?
Can't post screenshots as they are not in english and there's voice notes, but I just detailed everything.
Thanks
Hello guys.
So I was talking to this girl over tinder. I did a soft close, then went for her number
She gave it to me and we talked a little over WhatsApp. On Friday we agreed on going on a date for the next Monday. When Monday came, I sent her the location for the place where we would meet up but she said she thought we were going out on Wednesday (I offered Monday and Wednesday back then but we said Monday) . I told her that I already planned Monday so I couldn't do it on Wednesday anymore (not true but I didn't want to look overly available). I told her to get back to me when she had a better idea of her schedule and she agreed.
I'm pretty sure she won't reach out because she would probably just forget about me eventually.
I have to be the proactive one, I probably should have not given her all the power.
What should I do now? I was thinking of reaching out myself next Monday , but I don't know if it would be best to call her of just text her. If I do text her, what text would be ideal to reignite her interest?
Thanks
