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My current situation: I tend to cum too fast while fucking. My current strategy is to take breaks and eat out her pussy to give my dick a break, but she often gets irritated because she wants the dick more. Several times, she said "don't I'm going to cum soon" but I HAD to stop because I was about to ejaculate and didn't want to cum too fast. So, this is becoming an issue. My question is: What are the best strategies to LAST LONGER in bed during sexual intercourse?
On Chapter 10, it recommends to use the Vibrator (see image). The problem is, I don't want to use a vibrator that has a cord attached to it, I want a wireless one. So I have a couple of questions. 1) Any recommendations of a WIRELESS vibrator? 2) How do you best have sex with a vibrator? Do you use it while you're eating her out or while you're fucking her? I've never used one with sex but I want to try it out. Thanks, Christian
Alex, I'm posting this for you because I can't contact you on FB: So I have an issue of girls randomly unmatching me, and also ghosting my texts once we exchange numbers. I suspect it’s the problem is a combination of 1) me BORING her, and 2) just going straight for the date way too soon. So my question is: do you guys have any go-to “get to know you” type questions you cover BEFORE you try to set up a date? Things that keep her engaged and also builds rapport? I was reading the legendary Jeff Powell's lay reports, and I noticed like 90% of it is improv. He just texts her, and goes off what she says. Like if she says “Downtown traffic has been bad,” he would go off that and tell her about horror stories of traffic when he would drive around the city. He doesn't really follow a "messaging sequence script" - it's more like 99% improv. I don't know man, any help is appreciated here. Any fun, playful, ENGAGING (aka not boring so she ghosts you) type of things you guys text on the very front end of the interaction? @Alex I started something in Evernote, is there anything you would add to this list? Thanks!
Hey Guys, my name is Christian, I’m brand new, and glad to be part of the mastermind! The reason I joined is I realized that online is KING for getting hooking up with girls, NOT cold approaching in bars and clubs. Here’s proof. 1 - I personally know two “naturals” with women. One guy has over 500 lays, one guy has over 400 lays. Neither of them know about “game”, RSD, or read Neil Strauss’s book at all (I’ve gone through countless books, courses, dating programs, watched many different instructors on YouTube, and I’ve been with a lot less women than them btw). What I noticed about BOTH of them is they leverage online, are on all the dating apps, and get 95-99% of their pussy from online. One guy (the guy with 400+ lays) even has several success COLD DM’ing girls on IG, the other just has pretty much all the dating apps. They are simply great at texting, great at dates, and great at hooking up. Neither of them go out to bars/clubs to get laid. And I personally don’t know ONE natural who hooks up with a lot of girls from cold approaching, so that was the first “clue” that online is king. Heck, most of my friends are RSD/game followers, and most of THEIR lays come from online, and not from cold approaching in bars/clubs, so that’s even more proof. 2 - My personal results. At the time of this writing, I’ve been with 32 women. Not awful, but not good either. Keep in mind, I knew about cold approach and “game” at 18 years old as a virgin, so I always knew about cold approach. I track all of my results in a spreadsheet (odd, I know, but I’m very data-driven person in every area of my life). Want to know the breakdown of my lays, coming from someone who discovered cold approach as a VIRGIN at 18 years old? Total Lifetime Lays: 32 (this is a span of about 6 years from 2013 to 2019 - 3 of them were long term relationships, the rest were short term stuff) Tinder - 19 lays Bumble - 6 lays (0 success from every other dating app I’ve tried) Night Game - 4 lays (all from the same club BTW - 0 results from every other bar/club I’ve ever been to in my city, or any other city in the world) Day Game - 2 lays (one in a mall, one on a University campus) High School (social circle setting, not cold approach obviously) - 1 lay That’s the breakdown. Despite being on bootcamp with RSD Derek, despite studying who I perceive who are the “best” in the game, my personal bottom line results show a measly 6 LAYS from pure cold approach, and the rest have come from online. Big realization, and that’s why I joined this mastermind. Now, despite getting most of my personal results from online, I’m still extremely frustrated and VERY fearful for my sex life. Why? IT’S EXTREMELY DIFFICULT TO GET MATCHES. Being in Toronto, I thought I lived in a “hard city,” and the girls here are just super picky. But then when I traveled and went to different cities in the United States, and when I went to Bahamas, I realized that I had the same fucking problem of not getting matches, so I realize the common denominator is ME, not the city I’m living in. I even HIRED a guy to take fucking dating photos of me, and my results in terms of matches stayed the same. So I’m very, very fearful that I’m never going to experience exceptional results with women, which SUCKS because I love women so much and I love sex, that’s the reason I studied all the dating advice I have up to this point. I realized night game is a borderline waste of time of your logistics are bad, day game sucks because I’m walking around forever trying to find a hot girl, and online is the best but also sucks if you don’t get any god damn matches. So basically, online is "the best of the worst" from my world view. So here are my goals from joining this mastermind: 1 - GET YOUR OPINION on my pictures/bio, and what to include. I’m uploading all of them to IMGR, I really want your opinion on what to include. I’m also uploading my current Tinder profile. Also two less urgent things I need help with are: 2 - Messaging sequences, and having interesting things to ping a girl with before the date to KEEP her interest, so she doesn’t ghost me. 3 - How to escalate on a date...last 2 dates I went on I didn’t even go for the make out, and that’s not good. I need to learn how to verbally and physically escalate better. Sorry for the long post/rant, but I joined this for 3 very specific reasons. I’m desperate, and fearful for my situation with women, and I’m willing to do whatever the fuck it takes to get better, because things are NOT looking good. Thanks in advance to everyone, and thanks @Alex for responding to my messages in the forums prior to me joining. HERE ARE OTHER POTENTIAL PICTURES! - https://imgur.com/a/gEer4fV