Reply help, I don't feeling like going too sexual
Her bio: People tell me i look like John Lennon (She doesn't..) Me: I never thought I'd have a thing for John Lennon Her: What can I say, I awaken things in people they never knew were there
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Her bio: People tell me i look like John Lennon (She doesn't..) Me: I never thought I'd have a thing for John Lennon Her: What can I say, I awaken things in people they never knew were there
Me: Give me your most controversial opinion Her: I prefer to sleep with socks on Me: ahh, so when did you escape from the insane asylum? Her: hahahahahah, when do i meet somebody who doesn't think it's wierd;( Update: She unmatched me before I could send a respons xd
I'm still mostly using the "Can I be honest" opener, but when they just say thanks, I feel like I could have a good stock respons but I dont This is what im talking about: Me: Can i be honest? Her: yes Me: You are just my type Her: Thanks
I have been out of the game for a while, just returned and this is one of my first matches (Text is translated) [Tinder] Her: You're a bit of an angel Hansi Me: Haha thanks, I haven't heard that one before. What makes you say that? Her: You just look like someone who treats people right Me: Always, it's free to be nice, but you seem like someone I would treat better (She hearts this msg) Her: Do you have any tats since you write about it in your bio? Me: Yes, a little cute one Her: omg cute Her: What is it? Me: You almost have to do the honors of guessing: it's a character from a trio from a cartoon Her: POWERPUFFGIRLS Me: Haha yup, the green one Her: omg that is so cute Me: You have to see it in real life at some point (She hearts this msg) Me: What about you, any tats or plans for it? Her: I have 2 I made myself, but they are pretty ugly haha Her: But have lots of plans to get some real Me: haha live and learn i guess, do tell about your plans Her: Have more of an overall picture of what it should look like. It should be symmetrical and probably not realistic. Thinking of a few large pieces, otherwise some silly little ones haha Me: Awesome. I'm really surprised how few people have a holistic view, well-palced tattoos can really emphasize the natural beauty of the body Her: Exactly! I feel like it's a lot about how it should fit on my particular body. Me: To be honest (girl's name), you seem to have exactly the energy, personality and style I'm looking for. I think we should plan a date sometime Her: I love your confidence so much Her: I'm in Me: Send me your number and we'll plan something Her: ##### [Over text....] Me: Hey, Hansi from that thing Her: Heyo [15 min later] Her: I just realized that you have the same name as my older brother Me: Haha, then you'll have to come up with a nickname Her: That's a good idea Me: I can see you don't exactly live close by, so the question is whether you're up for coming here at some point or we need to find another alternative Her: I can come to (city) one day, it's not too far from where I live Her: In what area do u live Me: (area) around (thing) [All this was in on night]. [Next evening] Me: Did you hope for a different answer? Her: Oh shit sorry, not used to writing via text message Her: Nej! Her: (City) is completly fine Me: haha fair enough, you'll just have to make it up to me on the date Me: Do you drink wine? Her: i don't drink alcohol haha Me: That's fine too. Then I have 3 suggestions, we can keep it simple and just share a bottle of (children's drink) at my place, take a trip to the (shopping area near me) or go to a café Her: hmm (thinking emoji) i think suggestion 1 or 2 sound very nice Me: Aight, then we will go to (the shopping area) and if we vibe we can just go to my place afterwards Her: perfect (sunglass emoji) Me: What does your schedule look like? [next day in the evening] Me: And the award for best texter goes to... Her: Shit sorry, my phone is always on silent Her: maybe next week? Her: It will probably have to be a weekend Me: And it doesn't work this weekend? [Next day evening] Her: No, unfortunately I'm quite booked this weekend Me: Busy girl, what days would u suggest then? Her: Either Friday next week or maybe Saturday or Sunday. I'll think about it tomorrow and figure out which day is best. Of course, if you are available on those days [Next morning] Me: Super, do that, I think you're just sweet enough for me to move some things around, so we'll make it fit that weekend [4 days later - still a week out from the weekend shes free] Me: Yo sexy [No respons]. Reading these texts over i think it's really salvageable, i just feel rusty and i actually got quite frustrated by the fact that we spend like 4 days just trying the find a day shes free also - "yo sexy" proberbly wasn't very optimal, should have just follow up instead of waiting 4 days and asked if she found the free day My nuclear option right now is going with the "I didn't take u for the flaky type" but I think I want to do one more takeaway before that - I'm open to any suggestions, opinions or advice [Update] Me: Look if you are too nervous i'd understand [No respons]
Me: Can I be honest? Her: Give it a go Me: You are just my type Her: Brunettes or? Me: Cute brunettes* with a good ass and a bit of a wild side Her: What makes you say I have a wild side haha Me: It is clear in your eyes Her: Do I have crazy eyes? Her: Damn, I didn't know Me: I wouldn't call it crazy eyes, more like fuck me eyes, with all due respect Her: You're not the first to say that, short-sightedness gives such a spacy vibe to one's gaze Me: haha so there isn't a wild side at all just spacy short-sightedness ? Her: I may have done some things that don't exactly let mine into heaven Me: That is what I like to hear Me: Are you into wine? New stuff! 2 days later Me: Dont worry it's not a trick question Her: It's just my security question for the bank Me: So if I go down to the bank and whisper 'Yes, I love white wine' into the teller's ear, can I live a life of luxury at your expense? Her: If you think it's a luxury to live on the education benefits (government money for students), you just say "Wine is quite fine, as long as there's a lot of it" What would you do? How do get this back to fun and flirty Some info: I get the same government support as her. She is into poesi her bio say; Should i write you poem? and shes 19
Update in comments! Me: Can I be honest? Her: Give it a go Me: You are just my type Her: Brunettes or? Me: Cute brunettes* with a good ass and a bit of a wild side Her: What makes you say I have a wild side haha Me: It is clear in your eyes Her: Do I have crazy eyes? Her: Damn, I didn't know Me: I wouldn't call it crazy eyes, more like fuck me eyes, with all due respect Her: You're not the first to say that, short-sightedness gives such a spacy vibe to one's gaze Me: haha so there isn't a wild side at all just spacy short-sightedness ? Her: I may have done some things that don't exactly let mine into heaven Me: That is what I like to hear Me: Are you into wine? and no reply, with hindsight it was a bad time to close, could have just send one or two more text to actaully get her invested So right now I personally see 2 options i go with "Dont think too hard now" and if she answers that she likes wine, I propebly wont close with the next text. maybe something along the lines of "I think the story of why you arent allow inside the pearly gates would go well with a bottle of wine", just feels risky since she's now not responding Or option 2 i just re-engange and ignore the wine question completly, but what should i re-engange with ? Any and all ideas are appreciated
My first time chatting with someone bratty like this Me: Can i be honest? Her: Yes? Me: You are just my type Her: How soo? Me: Are you not a green-eyed brunet with a hot figur? Her: I am? (hard to translate, not in the insecure way in the bratty way) Me: Then there is a full house if you have a bit of a wild side Her: haha can you handle the wild side? Me: If you get too wild, I'll just have to hold you down Her: Haha whatever you say Me: Haha if you don't belive it, you'll just be more suprised when it happens Her: Haha we'll see sweet/cute you Me: Don't be silly, When I pull your hair, you'll become submissive enough Her: Who says i like my hair pulled? Me: If you behave, nothing will be pulled Her: And what if I don't behave? Me: Then I'll have to bend you over and spank your ass so hard that it leaves handprints She likes my msg Her: haha if you are allowed I plan on replying with: I only have to ask
She agreed to wine at my place I sent "Send me you number and we'll plan something" And she hit me with the "We can plan it on here" I'm pretty bad at handling these objections, so any advice would be appreciated Note: she lives decently far away
Me: Hey troublemaker Her: How do you know I'm a troublemaker? Me: You look innocent enough, but my intuition tells me otherwise Her: Then we'll have to see if you are right or wrong about it Me: Yes, are you into wine? Her: Of course, besides red wine I am allergic Me: Then we should share a bottle of white at my place one of these days Her: That doesn't sound too bad, let's do it Me: send me your number and we will plan something Her: That is alright, (number) (Over text) Me: Hey, Hansi from the thing Her: Heey you Me: What does your schedule look like? And no response Maybe I closed too early, but i felt like she laid it up for me Maybe i got too much into just logitsics
We were supposed to meet last saturday, but she wanted to reschedule to this friday instead. We havent texted at all since last friday Is it a bad idea just to wait to thursday and ask "hey you, are we still on for tommorow night" or should i start some convo earlier Any suggestion would be appreciated