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When it comes to the dates and deciding what day during the week, what is a good way to ask a woman how much time she has? I recently went on a date on Thursday in 20 minutes and even though the date was at 7 PM she was saying well I have to be up at 4:30 in the morning. Our date started at like 730 and went to like nine we did make out, but I’m wondering if I should’ve just had it done another day. So how do you screen for that on the app or beforehand.
For context,this chat is from Thursday night to Friday night. I’m USA, East Coast. I already have plans tonight Saturday night. Tinder says she’s one mile away. Wine close or what do I say?
What do I do when I suggest the place that’s 15 minutes from me but 45 minutes from her and she suggested the halfway date. We are about an hour apart and she’s a more conservative girl. How much do I go back-and-forth or is it better Alex to just say I’ll come down near her because I know you say halfway dates are bad.
I don’t know if this is in the product but follow up texts Alex sends after a day a date. Let’s just say drinks stay where you thought went well and you didn’t kiss because you didn’t wanna go the point of no return. what is your follow up text and when do you send it? Do you wait till the next day do you wait a couple days? And if it’s the next day, what time do you send it at your answer of these concerns would be very appreciated.
On dating apps, I often get into playful banter about going on activity dates. Sometimes I match with very conservative women, so I don’t feel comfortable suggesting going straight to my place if we’ve already agreed, for example, to meet for cocktails and visit an art exhibit. How can I transition things so I can suggest my place instead when I’ve already made plans? I don’t want to mess things up with more conservative women. Any strategies, Alex? Have you found that women that have looking for marriage on their profile or are have Catholic or something like that are open to coming over
Hey Alex, how did you develop the bro,breaking rapport voice? “What’s up guys”
Like if you do something, a little bit suboptimal on a date while still holding frame being like yeah that didn’t go well. Or after a date was too platonic, being like I’d to take you out again?
“ so I had some personal news about a family member and. I wasn’t as present as I should’ve been on the date and as a result, the girl said at the end of the date that she didn’t see a connection. I’m not saying the family member situation was the only reason I wasn’t as present.Should I be honest about what happened? How do I reframe and say look I wasn’t on my a game. Do you want to try this again? Alex, have you ever had a date where maybe you need sexualize enough and it was too platonic and you set up another day and turned it around. Do I recall something specific on the date?
I’ve heard some other dating coaches and you talk about sending text blast if Girl hasn’t responded to the third text in a row? What do these look like and how do you send them when the iPhone doesn’t allow you to text without them all being in the same group chat?
If so, how do you recommend they disclose it for context I’m talking about mild autism,not full blown obvious. Just a tad awkward.