I was curious about this sometimes I get likes from a hot girl (my profile is currently not so good) and when we match and I open, there is no reply. I usually open with a question and most answer with interest that is high and sometimes there are just hot girls who like me and they never text back at all. I appreciate the like and still I wonder why does she not reply. Is it possible to turn something like this into a hook-up/date? Or is it just a sign that she is low interest and a potential time waster?
For example.
Me: What's up XYZ? Where the hell is place ZYZ?
She: no reply
Me: What's up XYZ? How come you wanted to be part of the secret service are you an american spy?
She: I always loved detective stories I thought being an agent would be fun and pay well 😄.
We continue texting and dated.
Me: What's up XYZ? How come you watch anime XYZ? Are you secretly asian?
She: I wish haha. I was captivated by the series and I like watching animes ;) did you see it?
We continue texting we exchanged numbers, yet somehow no date occured here.
Is it the opener? Is this just normal that it happens on the other app I have nothing to basically go of besides pictures which maks it very difficult to ask questions.
Would openers like this work, when the users in the app barely gives any descriptions about themselves and only use pictures?
I bet you are trouble.
How do I make sure you are not a serial killer?
I bet you are a sugar mommy and you are trying to groom me.
I bet you go to the gym 3x a week, is that correct or am I right?
I bet you know where I can find good wine here, is that correct or am I right?
I bet you know where I can find good cake here, am I right?
Basically assumptions and observations that are commonplace? Is that a smart way onto how to approach a situation like this?
Yo, I bought a course from David DeAngelo aka Eben Pagan for online-dating. Who is sort of old school when it comes to game. My results are sort of meager, yet also in my region there are not many people to date. I live in a 100k city.
Basically, I re-evaluated today the whole experience and checked other guys profile the point is, I am generally looking better and I do have an advantage in the height departement as I am 6'3, I also have a good career going for me even if I am currently a student in IT. I looked at other guys profile I looked at approx. at 100 profiles in total from guys. They basically need some PWF advice. So, I have a clear advantage when it comes to online-dating even when they have higher status by occupation for example.
My text game improved the most after watching PWF content, also getting additional feedback from the community here was quite good. Basically my pictures are to posed and need more of a natural look. I will take new pictures with a professional quite soon. (1 week or 2) A friend sent me very good content on body language for pictures as well as PWF's content I looked through it. Made notes etc.
Basically I texted 1,2k to 1,3k girls on mainly two apps. OkCupid and Jaumo (German app) to learn online-game. I went through my results. I basically had 100 matches +-30. As well as 6-8 dates only and a total of 12 numbers. Basically I had 1% leads from texting 1,2k-1.3k girls. From these 12 numbers I had 6-8 dates. I had to do it online as this region is shit. So it was mostly via zoom. I only meet two girls physically, after the zoom/cam date. Which I think is insane and I had to drive an hour to get to both dates. Still 0 lays.
I did some wannabe statistics and I'd have to rate my profile in approx. the 65-60 percentile. As the frame is the worst issue.
The point is I had a decent amount of matches 5-15 per week. A lot of girls deleted me. Like a shit ton mostly on the same day, as I did a lot of c&c and I can be to offensive/arrogant, yet this is the most authentic part also which makes it high risk and high reward. Which was a lesson. I know the numbers don't add up, yet after 2-3 months I basically texted the entire OkCupid base of female users. My stack is consistently empty. Just to get good at online game. It's approximately correct. I counted how many women I messaged on Jaumo for instance as it's possible here and it's around 230 women.
All my dates gave me the same feedback a lot of fun and excitement, yet no connection. I basically can talk for hours which is insane for some people to handle and I am a strong introvert, so this happens mostly in 1 on 1 conversations.
My question basically is how do I display more value in pictures and how do I set the player frame/bad boy frame? (Listing sort of the most valueable thing about me)
I love reading
I love working out
I love meditation
I like psychdelics
I like cycling, even if I do it rarely
I like adventure I lived and worked in China and England for a couple of months. Been to approx 12. countries and 4 continents.
I am 6'3
Potential strong career in IT
These are not very player frame activities. Besides working out, cycling and adventure. I also consistently hear "omg you are such a good looking and handsome guy from professors, family friends, friends, even some girls online messaged me like hey handsome or complimented my pictures. Still I have close to 0 success with women.
How can I set the player frame with my activities do they even display value? What I want to do for the shooting is.
Haircut
Using a couple of shirts that look well, different outfits.
Player frame positions and make them look naturally for example the "eyes focused headshot position"
Make a picture reading some book that displays higher value like the intelligent investor
In general natural player frame positions, masculine and authentic not posed.
Picture where I pour in a glass of wine
Showing the photographer all of the positions and ask her to focus that they look masculine and not posed, basically saying I want more player frame pictures for additional feedback.
I can't really post pictures doing psychedelics, meditation might look to neutral or to "devoted" not confident and ambitious as well as masculine enough. Even though if you ever did zazen it's a highly masculine activity if you are familar with David Deida's work.
Any other ideas to display more masculine features in pictures? I don't have sunglasses. I don't own a suit. I do have a wristwatch to display some awareness around fashion/status.
Would that set the player frame? I know it's a lengthy question, I'd highly appreciate competent feedback.
What's up? I am getting matches sometimes where I match a girl, yet she does not reply after the opener this is mostly when I comment pictures. Any way did you find a way how to deal with this? What I've tried so far is asking a question afterwards about smth. in her profile as well as humour going of my inital text. Basically to re-open her after a day or two. For example I asked her what she is passionate about currently, or some joke of her picture "busting" on her. Sometimes sending a funny gif with rather bad results.
What comes to mind now just riffing off ideas.
Are you always this talkative?
Are you a shy virgin?
Are you shy?
No interested in talking? Are you that boring?
Are you really that good at conversations?
You really seem to be a good conversationalist.
Are these responses fitting to a situation where a girl matches, yet does not reply to the opener. I watched the video about texting low interest girls and flakey girls, yet this is a tiny bit different.
I tested the photos on photofeeler almost all of them. I ordered them by rating. Rating is as follows:"9,4, 9.0, 8.4, 7.9,7.8, 7.5, 7.1, 6.3, 5.6".
What would you say about the photos. I tested two plattforms OkCupid and this Jaumo app that is only available in Germany. I think both are rather horrible plattforms. I receive a decent amount of matches. Would you for instance use the last picture. The picture with the books received a rating of 9.1 or 9.3 for smart as I like to read.
Yo, I am texting with a girl I am supposed to meet on Friday she flaked once on Saturday, said sorry she can't I overinvested as I really think she is hot and she is quite dirty and checky. She wrote to me she likes doggy, blowjobs and to be chocked and is very open about sex. She is only 18. I told her I want to fuck her raw via text, yet when I listen to my voice mails I sound like a wuss, I like to transfer that energy rather raw in person.
The point is she does not reply anymore and made herself a new account on the dating plattform. I texted the new account as well as, yet she replies to sexting a lot, should I sent her smth. like in this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9kP0weye1RE from Alex.
What can I do? Say to her via voice mail, when we get to my place and kill a couple of bottles of beer I'll carry you over to my bed, brush your hair away and bite into your neck untill you feel the domination drive you crave for. I'd love to send the screenshots, yet the whole conversation was in German. (She likes beer more than wine)
I just asked casually how is your Wednesday going to prevent a flake. I am unsure what to do. Any advice? She replied two days ago, now she's not replying. After asking texting her on the app and on WhatsApp.
I have one more date next week, yet I am unsure what to make out of this whole situation. She often tells me she can't sleep. She is now online, yet does not reply to any messages. I am fine with her not texting back and just moving on.
What's up PWF Community? I've texted now close to 1k girls via apps that I am using to understand the principles behind online game. I do have approx a 10 to 10% ratio 1000 girls written 10% matches 10% of the matches dates. Close to that. I do think I have more then 100 matches, yet less then 10 dates so 6-7 dates.
I did now 7 cold approaches during night game. As I am getting into pick up now more. I got almost laid at my third approach with heavy escalation french kissing, touching her boobs etc. I wanted to even finger her inside the club as she pulled me up the stairs, yet I am tall and she was hot and cute and not very tall. I'd like to call this logistical issue.
This opener works very well, and this is smth. people like about me (honesty), yet what is a good follow up? Till now I have the most matches with this opener in Germany. I also have written mainly till now by going off my instincts and intuition. Some examples after the opener: "Can I be honest with you?".
Me: I really just think you are sexy, can I have your number? She: Not so fast. Me: How do you like this dating app? - No reply
Me: I really like you black hair in combination with red lips. - No reply
Me: I really like your peaceful aura and I like it that you go to the gym - Concerend emojiy reply
Me: I am unsure if your profile is real, yet I like your type of person chill, cool and open-minded - Gave me number she flaked on date where we supposed to meet, never texted back.
The other girl deleted the app and we want to meet on Friday, she told me also we can also just have sex. She flaked once , yet apologized and still wants to meet.
Somehow calling myself perverted old men also helped with matches. I did it twice and got one number. I am unsure as to why, besides just being paradoxical. As well as in a sense I am being a pervy old man, I think this is very funny, I am very compassionate. Which can be a hinderance for game, so I attempt to use this for playfulness.
Any feedback tips and advice as well as results to this opener? What is a good follow up line, going by type seems to be the best thing to do. Is that correct?
