I know my profile is not a very solid one. Optimistically a 5/10. I don't have photos with nice activities, but at least a used a semi-professional camera.
What is strange for me is that I was dating for 3 years and did not use the apps. Now I'm single again. Back that time, when I was 28, my profile was muuuuuuuuch worse than this one, and I used to make like 3 matches a day. Now I'm making like 0-2 matches a week. Is it because I'm older now?
Is this profile that bad?
Thanks
Bio I'm using:
"
Advantages of being with me: when I was in school took A+ on fixing showers, plant priuning, drink making and folding fitted sheets. I'm also dominant and very good with tying up (clothes line) ;)
Weak spots: beautiful smiles.
"
Okay, let me contextualize. I'm a 30-year old man. I live in a mid-sized city in Brazil (250k habitants), in which countryside culture is quite strong. To be clear on what I mean, here, interesting people from the city seldomly uses Tinder. If you open Tinder, you will basically find 18-19 yo girls who just made their way to university or 30-yo girls that were already fucked by the entire city (including me).
I have a bright position as Software Engineer, with room to more improvement, working here for a multinational enterprise in Home Office regime. Also, I already fucked enough DTF girls in my life, and I'm not interested anymore in hanging out with these girls. Additionaly, I have a good hunch on parsing DTF girls from better quality partners.
So, that said, I'd like to ask you guys any recommendations for getting to know more girls that are not DTFs. Currently, I know 2 potentially good partners from the gym, but both of them have boyfriends. Approaching them in thissituation would not be of any advantage for me, because in the most optimistic scenario it would be a cheat-and-fuck situation, and for that could fuck dtfs with much less trouble.
Beyong the gym, which are other good places to get to know potentially high quality partners? As I said, my job is Home Office, so it isn't an option.
Hey guys, I would like to very much thank you for the content shared here, especially @avilench. This has lead in a huge positive gap in my sexual life, and in the quality of girls I hang with.
I'd like to share this experience and suggest you, if I'm entitled, to try learning a little bit of basic shibari. I have this girl I hung out yesterday. I was texting her for a week already. No prints b/c all in portuguese and there's nothing new for you: just wine closing, kinky sexual misunderstandments, logistics. She is quite younger than me (29 vs 22) and she had already had bdsm experience in a past relationship (which she mentioned was a great point in my favor for meeting). When I sent her a photo of a rope while we were teasing each other, she asked if I did shibari, mentioned she never had and that would love me for doing that. My answer to her was something akin to: "Not a professional, but definetly can do". A day before meeting her, I just watched some videos and practiced 3 ties with bottles: single column, double column and - the one I would use on her - basic box tie.
Guys, here's the video I used to learn: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sNQ5Ox4ok9Q. This is ridiculously easy to do. I practiced it one time, and got it right during our sex. The response to this was SO POSITIVE that she asked me to take a picture of her in her cellphone and send it in a whatsapp group of her girl friends. This not only raised my value TO HER, but also to all her feminine social circle.
My point with this story is: if this, A BASIC TIE, functioned so well with she, which was already a well-trained bdsm brat, I'm guessing how impressive this can be with vanila type girls. I'm definetly learning some more now.
Best regards, ~hiper
Hey, one girl from the app just passed me her instagram and said:
"Take care not to fall in love for me".
She sounds very very bratty on her texts, the one kind that seems to be seeking a good spanking. What would you respond for that text?
P.S.: I'll post the full conversation for you to have the context, but I'm from Brazil so we are chatting in portuguese. Printing it would be useless, so I translated the conversation as is:
Me: Can I be honest?
She: I don't know
Me: Compreehensible indecision
She: Hahahahahaha. Tell me your honesty
Me: I have two;
She: I'm listening;
Me: one: you are exactly my type; two: you look you make lots of little boys suffer there;
She: Hahahaha. HAHAHAHA. You tell that to every girl, don't you? What is your type?
Me: Feminine, strong personality, smaller than me;
She: you're 180 cm, how could anyone be bigger? lol;
Me: Mhm. You like wine?
She: No! I like coke. See how I don't make up your type??
Me: Yes I do
She:
Me: As you know my type are the pathologic alcoholic ones. Preferable some years of rehab. What suck about this is that I can't spice brandy in the strogonoff, but that's love we have no control;
She: Some chance you would change your love too remedy addicts? I can garantee you some years of rehab also.
Me: Not impeditive :)
She: lol I was kidding
Me: So now you know I'm tolerant and protective;
She: Well, tolerant you are. Protective don't know yet;
Me: Well anyone can speak that out loud;
She: You're right;
Me: That's why we should share a whisky and get to know ourselves better. I trust your insight;
Me: If you are not too shy for that
She: Hahahahaha. I'm not shy. I don't know you enough, you can be a crazy guy;
Me: I quit kidnapping for money. Now just for love;
She: Should I be preocuppied then?
Me: You're safer with me than without. Now about not knowing me we can solve that. Add me on instagram;
She: Where is it? Follow me there. Just take care not to fall in love.
So. I'd like to hear your opinions on the following photos. Long story short, I recently broke up. I don't have many HV-activity photos (never cared to take them) and I'm quite full of work now to travel and take photo on different places. I put one there from a travel I did in 2018 (it was the only decent one I had). So I tried to do all these home. What do you think about them?
Is there any of these you wouldn't use?
Which do you think should be first?
What could I do to make them more solid?
Thanks, best regards.
Hey guys
I'm from Brazil, and here it is actually very commom for girls to ask about your political position. Here we're governed by Jair Bolsonaro, who is kind of a "Trump-like" style politician. I think we are living a moment of polarization as big as in the USA, in which people assume you are good or evil according to your political compass.
As you would expect: 80~90% of 20-30 year-old girls here are left-wing. They use to have "Fora Bolsonaro (=out Bolsonaro)" written in their bios. And it is VERY COMMON (very, really) that they will ask you what's your opinion in politics. I use to joke around, change the subject or something like that. Usually it works fine.
But I got curious to ask: what do you think is the BEST response to when a girl ask you: "So what do you think about Bolsonaro/Trump?"
Thanks
Hi,
I would like you to critique this profille. I've been getting a decent amount of matches, but I'd say the quality of the matches is not more than regular.
So, the real issue for me is the following: I'm 28, and these last 3 years I was engaged, so I basically didn't take any decent photo doing high value activies because I wasn't bothered with shooting photos of me. Now that I need photos such as those, I'm unnable to travel or do different things this year, due to work issues. So I was wondering how to take high value photos without to realocate myself so much (I also don't live near any beach). So, all these photos (except the one in suits) were taken in my house. I have a decent Canon EOS and some ability in editing photos. Do you have any suggestions how could this get better?
Please, don't respond "go travel". I plan in doing that soon (like in 4 or 5 months), but whilst I can't, I'd like to search for homemade solutions.
