I dated this girl for a month during quarantine, but I broke up with her. Few months ago I matched with her on tinder again. After that last message she didn’t respond, so I unmatched. What did I do wrong? Is she completely turned off and if we were to march again, would I have a shot. Would hitting her on ig be appropriate?

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responded above, lmk if you can't see it. i'd prefer swipe up on story since it's smoother.

if you really wanna try DMing, i'd probably just be casual and say callback humor / reference to something when you were dating, or just "how's my favorite {her job/ethnicity}?"

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J

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One more thing, if this was already diagnosed will Alex still reply?

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A

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yes

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J

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Can’t see it

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A

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not sure, id wait on alex's response. imo, you already did that so it's unnecessary. if you go the IG route I'd choose swiping on story over dm'ing in this case because it's smoother / more lowkey and then just build the vibe up from there more calibrated this time.

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