Set a Date, She Keeps texting
How do you handle a situation where you set a date and the girl keeps wanting to txt between then?
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How do you handle a situation where you set a date and the girl keeps wanting to txt between then?
only if youre not good at it
its a fine balance and I almost posted this same thread at start of quarantine, because some girls are super chatty nowadays. dont be at her every beck and call, but get back to her. if shes texting you a minute after you respond, consistently, and you respond 12 hours later every time, contrary to popular belief she will eventually get tired of it. try if you dont believe
be flirty, send 'low energy texts' (think how Alex manages to say so much w so little), pictures go a long way too. eg instead of saying 'blah blah blah, I did this today, yap yap yap' just send a picture. I do this alot w my workout eqpt, cooking, motorcycle, etc.
it will mostly be a mix of 'get to know you' and 'what are u up to'
if you do it right, it can dramatically decrease time needed to get her comfortable in person
ideally you do prefer text for logistics and some vibing, but some girls are a little more clingy. adapt to the situation
Thanks for the input. What do you think of this so far?
its not bad. I usually try to drive it somewhere so it doesnt just fizzle out, without falling into text buddy frame.
within the context of small talk its also good to
if I respond late like you did, I just respond 'good afternoon ;)' to her good morning
or if talking about work
'good, working on a fancy project'.
things like that.
little white lies dont hurt either so long as they drive the convo fwd. I have tons of old photos of places near me (LI) or old dishes I made that i just send clingy types if they ask me what ive been up to, that in reality happened months etc ago, but are a good default go to if nothing comes to mind. and then I add some flirtiness. 'just made some x, come try it' format etc