But honestly I don't want to. Maybe just tease her

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Is it possible to have success without escalating?

So I intentionally don't want to escalate. Why? Because I want to know her better. I've been in many uncomfortable situations in the past, in where I go sexual with random girls. Some have bad hygiene, some get kind of entitled after s\*x, etc.  I've been dating, but I feel like escalating is almost essential. My percentage of success seems to be significantly higher when trying to escalate. What are your thoughts? 

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Uknown Chud

But honestly I don't want to. Maybe just tease her? There needs to be a way to know her better, before getting involved. I just don't want to escalate too fast.

Also sometimes it's more enjoyable to go slowly and form a special connection. I've had sex on first or second date, and many times, the thing just dies. I lose interest.

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avilench .

If you're losing interest because you had sex with a girl, that's def a "you problem", that you needd tto fix. Delaying escalattion is a horrible strategy from a game perspective

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