Is it possible to have success without escalating?
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So I intentionally don't want to escalate. Why? Because I want to know her better. I've been in many uncomfortable situations in the past, in where I go sexual with random girls. Some have bad hygiene, some get kind of entitled after s*x, etc.
I've been dating, but I feel like escalating is almost essential. My percentage of success seems to be significantly higher when trying to escalate.
What are your thoughts?
401 Posts (+1.3K), 16K Cmts (+5.4K)
Yea, you 100% have to escalate. Without doing it, the girl starts tto think you're a pussy and loses interest.
5 Posts (+1), 24 Cmts (+0)
But honestly I don't want to. Maybe just tease her? There needs to be a way to know her better, before getting involved. I just don't want to escalate too fast.
Also sometimes it's more enjoyable to go slowly and form a special connection. I've had sex on first or second date, and many times, the thing just dies. I lose interest.
401 Posts (+1.3K), 16K Cmts (+5.4K)
If you're losing interest because you had sex with a girl, that's def a "you problem", that you needd tto fix. Delaying escalattion is a horrible strategy from a game perspective
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I mean if you screen for really prude girls, maybe even saving for marriage virgins you can go on a few dates but the girl eventually has to know you see her sexually and aren't impotent.
How long do you need to get to know a girl? I think I get a good idea in a few hours with the right questions. Most young women are tiktok/social media addicts, just spend a few hours on there and you'll get a good picture lol