So about a month ago I banged this hot Latina and ever since then she’s been super flakey. After we had sex I was super busy with work and couldn’t see her again until about 2 weeks later but she knew this the night we had sex. But I kept some contact in between while i was working. Anyway after I was done working I had a date scheduled for Thursday and she flaked last minute but gave me a genuinely real excuse I thought. Anyway Since I live with my parents and so does she I have to rent an Air bnb for fuck dates, so after she flaked I made a huge mistake in my opinion maybe you disagree and took her on a dinner date instead of just renting a air bnb and pushing for sex again. Since the dinner date she’s flaked 2 weeks in a row, last night being the second time but called me and said she had to see her friend who just went to the ER, last week was she was having bad cramps on her period. Last night I just acted understanding and said I’m sure you will make it up to me instead of calling her out in a non but hurt way wich may of been a mistake too idk. And I took the same understanding frame the week before when she said she was cramping on her period the Friday a day before the date. What are my options here should I not re engage for a week Or 2 and see if she hits me up or something else. Like idk if she’s lost interest or losing interest or if she’s genuinely having emergency’s. And if a girl does lose interest how can you regain it? Thanks

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avilench . Avatar

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Yep you can do that. Or you can try to relate to her and offer a potential reframe (down the line)

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What would the relate and re frame response look like?

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avilench . Avatar

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It’s not just gonna be one text man. It’s gonna be multiple and multiple texts back and forth

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