If she was gonna flake then even if you call or te

Whats up guys my first post here So I was just texting with this girl, and she agreed to meet. I asked for her number and she said that she doesn’t want to give her number and asked for mine. I gave her my number but she didn’t text me. After three days, I hit her up with the takeaway “if you’re too shy I’d understand.” She said you will only get my number after our first date. I said I’m not here to be your text buddy I want to move things forward. She than said : “okay give me your Telegram” And I said “say please” She got offended and became emotional. and for sure I don’t wanna meet up with a girl who doesn’t even shows a little bit of respect and politeness. So I lost my date, but what can I do better next time? Thanks guys

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Jose Kaldić

If she was gonna flake then even if you call or text her via phone she probably wont pick up/respond anyway
Could have said "I'll drive an hour so you better not flake othervise u'll get a spanking". It kinda sexualizes the convo + lets her know she shouldnt flake. After a text like that any decent person would at least tell you a few hours before if she will be flaking

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Mateo Mateo

That’s actually a good idea, I might use it next time. Thanks man! I just didn’t want to risk it too much, going into another city without being able to contact her. I mean its 2023 if you think I am a stalker just block my number lol

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Jose Kaldić

Np man and yea it makes no sense I mean she agreed to go out with you but then she is still too scared to give you her number lol what

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