For sure, but of course when dealing with the girl

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I matched with a real dime on hinge on Saturday. I usually dont bother opening by guessing where they're from since its boring, unless their profile challenges you to it, which hers does. I made it somewhat flirty at least, by saying "Before I start to charm you, im going to guess where you are from, are you ready? which she liked, and responded to it by saying she's ready. I sent the message guessing her background, but have yet to get a response..any ideas for what to do incase i need to reengage? I already sent a "dont be shy" 24 hours after, which has yet to get a response still, and I dont want to over-pursue.

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Michi J

For sure, but of course when dealing with the girls who are more attractive sometimes messages get lost amongst the other ones. Also I was busy that day so I took 4 hours to respond to her. Who knows how many guys are in that inbox..

Still nothing as of yet, a good re-engagement message would be useful not just for this situation, but also for future reference too if you have any ideas.

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Also, waiting 3 days instead of the 24 hours or whatever you did here still would've been far better because she would end up seeing that notification later and be like 'oh shit, I saw his but forgot to respond' and then the conversation will start again

Shadeaux null

Yes, I'll occasionally check back here if something pops into my head. Also, they indefinitely receive copious amounts of messages (for example, I'm in an area with ~40,000 people and some of the girl's tinders I've seen average probably 50-60 messages A DAY.) especially if you live in a bigger city. In instances like that, if the girl is atleast somewhat interested, plowing/persisting in a non-needy way like most dude's in her DM's likely are, will be the key here

Michi J

She unmatched LOL.... I didn’t even say anything else, but for next time I need to know how to navigate through this.

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