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I matched with a real dime on hinge on Saturday. I usually dont bother opening by guessing where they're from since its boring, unless their profile challenges you to it, which hers does. I made it somewhat flirty at least, by saying "Before I start to charm you, im going to guess where you are from, are you ready? which she liked, and responded to it by saying she's ready. I sent the message guessing her background, but have yet to get a response..any ideas for what to do incase i need to reengage? I already sent a "dont be shy" 24 hours after, which has yet to get a response still, and I dont want to over-pursue.
Can you share some screenshots of the convo and profile for better context here? It would help to see the kind of profile we're working with here
Sure. For privacy reasons I don’t really feel comfortable share the profile of her, but I’ve attached a screen of the very brief interaction. For a bit of better context, her profile stated to leave a comment if you can guess her background. Which is what I used to open as you can see.
Any suggestions for how to proceed would be appreciated. It could just be that she’s not on the app much maybe, who knows....I don’t want to send too much follow ups, but the last one was 24 hours ago.
Here you've already done a takeaway so you shouldn't proceed with anything right now as she's not had any other investment since. Patience is a virtue here my friend. In the meantime, follow up on other leads.
I understand, but you can cross out her face and name and it'd be equally as anonymous, but I get it. And I'd assume if she's attractive that she has a lot of dudes fawning over her so it's likely that you would easily get lost in the sea of dudes.. However, contrary to what most guys might do, I don't normally follow what her bio says because now you're sort of playing into her frame and there's not many places to go from there that will move to a future meetup. I usually just like to make an observation off the bat and move from there