I'll admit, this has been a tough opener for me to

I'm not sure how to message these girls I have 20+ matches but very few responses I've been using the opener " I've noticed something intresting about you ..." quite a lot it's the most successful one I have And I've been getting the cold shoulder I don't know how to start bantering etc... I'm very good at going deep into people but I don't know if that's plus on something like this? Please take a look at my interactions and tell me/ guide me on what I'm doing wrong and how I can improve As I have many other setup like this and I don't want to ruin them! Also I know my profile is pretty good photos video etc... I'm male based in London England 🇬🇧 I'm new this this forum this is my first post so apologies if I get certain things wrong

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Shaun D

I'll admit, this has been a tough opener for me too; however, the last messages you're sending seem too wordy and logical. The simpler, the better works best in my experience.

For example, you could keep it to one or two weaknesses and say funny personality and amazing booty.

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Gerry D'jeseus

Thanks Shaun D Shaun D

Really appreciate the feedback I'm thinking of doing this instead

"I've just noticed something intresting about you..."

Which is

(Eg. I'd have to whisper it to you)

And then do a voice note as I have a deep voice

And then banter flirt etc...

And then see how it goes from there thoughts?

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Herb S

I mean, try it. Might work better.
In the end, try, learn, change, try again... ;)

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