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I'm not sure how to message these girls
I have 20+ matches but very few responses
I've been using the opener " I've noticed something intresting about you ..." quite a lot it's the most successful one I have
And I've been getting the cold shoulder
I don't know how to start bantering etc... I'm very good at going deep into people but I don't know if that's plus on something like this?
Please take a look at my interactions and tell me/ guide me on what I'm doing wrong and how I can improve
As I have many other setup like this and I don't want to ruin them!
Also I know my profile is pretty good photos video etc...
I'm male based in London England 🇬🇧
I'm new this this forum this is my first post so apologies if I get certain things wrong
You sound like you're writing a poem. It's way too formal, wordy and serious.
Oddly enough I did study poetry, damm I thought I could use something like that to my advantage
Seems as though I need to find a different route
Does this always need to be followed up with
You embody three of my weaknesses
Is there another line I can use or say?
I think that may be best?
I'll admit, this has been a tough opener for me too; however, the last messages you're sending seem too wordy and logical. The simpler, the better works best in my experience.
For example, you could keep it to one or two weaknesses and say funny personality and amazing booty.
Thanks Shaun D Shaun D
Really appreciate the feedback I'm thinking of doing this instead
"I've just noticed something intresting about you..."
Which is
(Eg. I'd have to whisper it to you)
And then do a voice note as I have a deep voice
And then banter flirt etc...
And then see how it goes from there thoughts?
I mean, try it. Might work better.
In the end, try, learn, change, try again... ;)
Yeah. The words you're using are a bit too complicated. You should take a look at the texting vids on yt and texting guides on the website
bro so cringe. stop with these pseudo witty lines. just talk to her normal
Not one single response you made makes sense " a lively but quite tone" " a woman who knows her worth" " a woman who speaks her mind"
Those responses are trash, how can you even gauge this off pictures? This isn't a romance novel those lines aren't going to work, you need to stop using that opener and change things up.
Thanks I will do In the future
Noted, I need to keep it lighthearted and funny , without taking bs out a romance novel
But in the meantime do you have any better followups?
Instead of "weakness" from this response?
he thought he was being witty and edgy lool
