SEE COMMENTS From double/triple texting to this. At this point do I say “If that’s cool...” or simply reengage with her on Thursday with “Hola (name)” then proceed to confirm. That’s actually an airbnb I’m saving for Thursday to use, not my actual address. I also use it because it’s closer to the boat work I do for the morning after. ANY & ALL feedback is greatly appreciated!!
Anyway, re-evaluating this particular conversation...
Unless I missed it, the actual close had a sub-par execution. No time was given (other than you’re off by 8PM and she goes to bed by 10PM, which gives a very short, assumed window of time). No place/location for the boba place was stated.
Maybe in this situation it works out/she isn’t flakey, but for the future I would be a little more detailed/precise with the time, location, etc. Then after it’s all decided re-confirm all those details in one sentence to back to her.
How’s:
“No worries. Another time. Save some for me?”
“No worries. Another time. Hope I’m not distracting you with my handsomeness.”
“No worries. Another time. How many did you make me?”
Not surprised at all. I predicated her flaking.
I wouldn’t say “no worries” or sound too overly accommodating to her flakiness.
Maybe something along “Let’s reschedule? When are you free?”
Also if you can, without sounding butt hurt or coming off as an asshole, give her a bit of shit for forgetting lol
