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From double/triple texting to this. At this point do I say “If that’s cool...” or simply reengage with her on Thursday with “Hola (name)” then proceed to confirm.
That’s actually an airbnb I’m saving for Thursday to use, not my actual address. I also use it because it’s closer to the boat work I do for the morning after.
ANY & ALL feedback is greatly appreciated!!
Anyway, re-evaluating this particular conversation...
Unless I missed it, the actual close had a sub-par execution. No time was given (other than you’re off by 8PM and she goes to bed by 10PM, which gives a very short, assumed window of time). No place/location for the boba place was stated.
Maybe in this situation it works out/she isn’t flakey, but for the future I would be a little more detailed/precise with the time, location, etc. Then after it’s all decided re-confirm all those details in one sentence to back to her.
How’s:
“No worries. Another time. Save some for me?”
“No worries. Another time. Hope I’m not distracting you with my handsomeness.”
“No worries. Another time. How many did you make me?”
Not surprised at all. I predicated her flaking.
I wouldn’t say “no worries” or sound too overly accommodating to her flakiness.
Maybe something along “Let’s reschedule? When are you free?”
Also if you can, without sounding butt hurt or coming off as an asshole, give her a bit of shit for forgetting lol
You got an air BnB for Thursday to hopefully bring her back after boba date?
Is this something you do? Or this first time?
Haven’t bought the airbnb yet.
I scout for Airbnbs that I can book at the very last minute that I’ve already been to with previous fwbs/lays. If everything goes smoothly and we go back to “my place” (I really live with my parents), I will literally buy the Airbnb as we’re walking up the driveway.
I wanted to see if I could get her to come straight over after getting her number as opposed to going out to grab boba. I gave her the address & it turns out she lives on that street.
Trying to figure out the next steps & if I she’s fully on board/compliant.
This is a cool strategy. Do the girls ever catch on that it’s not your place? What if they wanna go back over and someone else has it?
I recently moved in with my mom while she’s going through chemo. Initially I stopped dating but now I’m over the stress and been getting out there. But it’s kinda hard for me to bring girls over. I usually just go to their place after some drinks and apps.
2 girls I dated lived with their parents so it was hard. One of the girls I took to a motel. The other girl I took to the park and we fucked in my car. Both of them were way harder to get the lay than the girls that had their own place. And if I had my own place it would be way easier and less “implications” that a motel gives.
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Oh okay! Thankfully it’s strategic. I thought you just booked it with high hopes, not knowing how flakey girls are.
It’s probably too late to text her tonight, I would just do a confirmation tomorrow. “Hey name, we still good for tonight?”
