Hi Alex, Hope all is going well. I wanted to reach out because I'm still having the issue where my dating app matches are not responding. I tried implementing the advice you gave of being less serious/formal and more flirty and im using FireTexts more but still not getting much responses. I feel like it has less to do with the conversation and more to do with them being low investment/low attraction from the beginning. Maybe it goes back to my photos. I would like to hear your thoughts on this. (See attached screenshots).

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That makes sense, considering I'm swiping on mostly attractive girls that already have a lot of options on here. Out of my recent matches, I would say ~65% of my matches ghosted on the dating app, and ~20% of my matches gave me their #, not necessarily leading to a date. I get at most 1-2 matches a day, sometimes zero it depends. Let me know if you have any other questions.

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yea all that is normal. The only reason you're struggling is because you don't have enoughh leads coming iin the first place. You wanna be getting minimum 5-10 matches a day. You just need to improve your photos

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Ok, I'll look into getting a dating app photoshoot done. Thanks again for your help.

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