Hi Alex, Hope all is going well. I wanted to reach out because I'm still having the issue where my dating app matches are not responding. I tried implementing the advice you gave of being less serious/formal and more flirty and im using FireTexts more but still not getting much responses. I feel like it has less to do with the conversation and more to do with them being low investment/low attraction from the beginning. Maybe it goes back to my photos. I would like to hear your thoughts on this. (See attached screenshots).

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yeah stuff like this happens to everyone most of your matches are not going to go anywhere. what percentage of your matches are like this? and how many matches do you get a day?

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That makes sense, considering I'm swiping on mostly attractive girls that already have a lot of options on here. Out of my recent matches, I would say ~65% of my matches ghosted on the dating app, and ~20% of my matches gave me their #, not necessarily leading to a date. I get at most 1-2 matches a day, sometimes zero it depends. Let me know if you have any other questions.

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yea all that is normal. The only reason you're struggling is because you don't have enoughh leads coming iin the first place. You wanna be getting minimum 5-10 matches a day. You just need to improve your photos

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