The woman I’m seeing is much older than me, been seeing each other for a few months now. She ends up telling me 3 weeks into the interaction that she’s “married” when we had a room booked etc, and she had already fucked me the day before as well. So I decided to dig deeper and it’s the typical long term relationship that had soured afyer a few years, they have a child though, But unofficially married. Guy ain’t fucked her in a year and they don’t live together. So I ain’t breaking up a happy home type stuff.  Anyway, I made it clear to her the situation, how she’s still technically with another guy and I’m gonna see others maybe if I want to, because she was trying to question why I want to see others, and I know she’s starting to catch feelings heavy, we have intense sexual chemistry, wild animalistic public sexual affection type stuff, raw penetration etc. I know she’s falling in love and it’s going to result in another moment of friction, we had an argument already once, because she didn’t accept my honesty that i may have a few other girls I’ll see at some point, but I ain’t seeing anybody at this moment truthfully, and she accepted my stance after a few days of no contact. she actually ended up telling her guy about us and he’s gone from not caring about her to blowing up her phone when she’s with me randomly on video calls, worrying that he’s gonna lose her. we’d be together and she gets the video call and then I gotta leave the vicinity, or she recently just ignores it. I can tell I’m the guy that she’s using as revenge in some ways.  How do I maintain this situation without it blowing up ? She’s telling me she is gonna leave the guy regardless for her own peace but that may pigeon hole me into a commitment or something if she expects to leave one for the other, which ain’t happening. Honestly, I’d have dipped if it was a legit marriage and family dynamics because I cba to mess with that headache when there’s plenty of other women out there. 
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I need some advice and I don’t know if here is the right place tbh, but I’ll try anyway since all the feedback I’ve had here before has been great.  I recently lost my v to an older milf a few months back, and we have insane sexual chemistry, we keep seeing each other and the dynamics are fire. The issue is, I’m experiencing the infamous can’t cum problem most guys get when they first start laying pipe, most definitely due to being not used to the v and being a “hand” guy up until now. The good news is I do everything else right, I make her cum with my hands, intense kisses, but my penetration technique needs work, it’s hit and miss, sometimes i cant Even find her hole in time and get flaccid, and I ain’t really feeling too much stimulation by the vagina yet though it’s slowly changing, it ain’t dramatic. basically I’m doing 90% of the stuff by the book, to the point where she doesn’t even believe that it’s my first few times, but the penetration and the cumming part are something I need some fixes with, maybe it’s just a time thing? Keep at it until it falls into place? No doubt some performance anxiety plays a part.  
I matched this girl weeks ago on the app was all ok, but she told me she’s a shit texter on the app, proceeded and got her number but she didn’t reply to my opening message. I then reverted back to the app and called her out for ghosting after a couple weeks and as you can see she apologised and messaged back on my phone, but then proceeded to not reply again. Then the last message I got from her weeks ago after my final takeaway was a upset emoji... Any advice on what the next step is? I’ve resorted to just leave this one for now since she’s inconsistent but maybe it’s worth salvaging in a week or so?
A while back this girl blocked me because I was teasing her a bit. I tried Alex method of messaging using a different number with those app. No luck. It’s been months since then, I wanna try and see if her mental health has changed since she was a nut case. Any alternatives I can try without coming across as being a creep or overstepping boundaries ?
The apps are in a major decline I’ve noticed, from my own experience but also others on here. Hinge is still solid but the others are going through bad patches in terms of quality of women, bots etc. I’ve had an IG for a year but I don’t really use it and it’s got zero followers, I made it to try and test myself with DM girls but as expected it didn’t work at all. The dilemma is that on the apps I’ll match girls with 10k -100k (even millions) of followers, but on IG I’ve yet to get a response from the dms. I know I can get the women im after on IG because I pull them regularly on the apps, but I want to try and strengthen my IG to get responses. Whats the best way around this?
I’ve been texting this milf for a while now, she’s abroad, our chemistry was good but my biggest problem is I don’t take many photos, I’m lucky that the 3 I have on my profiles get me good success so I’ve become lazy. Anyway this girl was asking for photos and at the time I didn’t have any new ones, and she got fed up and lost interest....completely my fault. Now I’m trying to claw this one back but it looks like it’s a lost cause, I haven’t engaged in over a week now after my last takeaway. If anybody has any good ideas on any Hail Marys it’ll be much appreciated.
