why do girls always say this

It means that she wants a man who can set boundaries. That you aren't so thirsty, that you'll check her when she's violating your boundaries. That she can't walk all over you. Ways to practice this are to call out behaviors that you see: "did you just roll your eyes?" "Ah, so you're shaming me because you think..." one that I love is when a girl doesn't put a lot of effort into her appearance for a date, I'll wait until I have them laughing or attracted then I'll lean in and say "by the way, thank you for putting so much effort into winning my attraction" and point up and down their outfit. It's just calling shit out that you see when you think it's fucked up or worthy of mockery.

Women like this are freaky! Hopefully Alex sees this post so he can help you out, good luck bro

they say that becuase the vast majority of man are fake nice to them and pretend like their shit dont stink, girls sense right thru this and its a turnoff, when they meet a man who is real and not afraid to call them out on their shit its a big turn on