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Met this girl at the climbing gym (she asked for help on a route) we end up talking for 30mins the first time. the 2nd she approached me and asked how one of my hobbies were going. We ending up talking for a over an hour I got her insta.
Here's the insta chat
Jan 4th 9pm I videocalled her to go to this other climbing gym she said yes and was excited to go. 3min convo
Me you still good for 8pm - Jan 5th 6pm
Girl: Hey Joe I'm trying to get my self to rally. I'm a little tired from my work schedule and I left one of my shoes at the gym. Would you be down to reschedule for Monday potentially. - Jan 5th 6pm
Girl: If I muster up energy (caz I have to switch to nightshift tonight) I'll go to the other gym at 9 to lift
Me: voice message " you will be fine"
Girl: aye let's do Monday if ur able to im going to pass out - Jan 5th 8pm
Me: Monday works hows 8pm Jan 7th 9am
Girl: yes Monday im free at 8pm :) - Jan 8th 3pm
Girl: I'm good for 8pm tonight - you still going? - Jan 9th 5:30
Me: video call (didn't pick up) - Jan 15th 9pm
Girl: Hey I saw u called! What's good? - Jan 16th 3pm
Me: you down to climb Friday? - Jan 17th 6pm
Girl: I have a poll show Friday let me check what time it starts. - Jan 17th 9:01pm
(I liked her message) 10pm
Me: you seem busy I went ahead and made plans. Maybe another time - Jan 19th 4:30
Girl: ay I'm sorry joe! Lmk when ur free to climb @gym enjoy ur Friday :) - Jan 20th 9:20
Me: I'm free to climb tomorrow at 8pm - Feb 5th 5pm
Me: video call (no response) - Feb 9th 4:30
Girl: let me call you tomorrow? I'm about to start a night shift. What's good? - Feb 9th 4:31
Me: sounds like a plan. It's a surprise - feb 9th 4:56
Me: video call (no response) Friday Feb 11th 4:30
I like this girl but im trying to be careful caz she does go to my gym so I'll probably see her again. When she flaked the first time I lost interest a bit and kinda played hard to get caz I figured she was playing games with me. I've been super slammed with my 2 businesses working 80hr weeks and that's been a part of way It took so long to hit her back up. I'm unsure if I should be honest with her and apologize for why I've been kinda a dick over text or just leave it alone and maybe talk to her when I see her at the gym. Would love to hear yalls thoughts!
Dont video call girls from out of nowhere, as u can see its pretty likely they wont pick up
At this point I'd just wait until you see her at the gym again & talk to her then
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