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I used the "how the boys treating you" line but don't want to get stuck in this frame where she tells me her guy problems. How to proceed?
Thinking of saying "sounds like his loss tbh."
Or "damn buddy fucked up. Time for something better"
Damn bro you just went from potential sex partner to her now therapist. Never bring up other dudes / how tinder is going.
That's the problem with that question.
Guys think it's a low key mog to refer to other dudes as "boys" (as opposed to guys or men) but it generally just comes off as cringy. I never ask about her other dates or matches
"Don't worry. We'll stitch your heart back up together"
The guys here are spot on, keep it fun simple, and flirty, no need whatsoever to talk about her guy problems, on a date, after you guys have banged, two months into the relationship if you want to break down her past dating life in depth go ahead but you're gonna get stuck in that therapist frame Jim mentioned mighty quick by using that line on Tinder. From here I like Jake's suggestion, "Exactly. Some wine with a (tall?) (exotic?) (insert some quality) handsome man will cure you" - when she affirms, move in for the number close.
Goodluck
Thank you guys for your advice. I won't use that line anymore.
Honestly, you can ping for the soft close because seems interested enough. "Exactly. I'm thinking some wine will cure your heart for good"
