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A girl I met at the club, and have known for some months now sent me a selfie out of the blue. It's mostly a normal selfie. Aside from fitting in her cleavage with a slight duck face.
We had a good vibe or a while. Until she moved into the city and started bar tending. Conversation was mostly initiated by me after her interest started to go down. Why she's messaging me out of nowhere I don't know. Things only fell by the wayside as they sometimes do.
Here's the thing. There are several principles that are conflicting:
Here, I'm not sure how to proceed. Responding in an underwhelming manner might not be the right "Push" at this time. Rewarding her doesn't seem right either. So, maybe something neutral such as: "You again? What's up troublemaker." Could be appropriate.
Thoughts?
I went through all the screens. So few thoughts man. She’s definetly legitinately attracted to you. HOWEVER, she is a hot big titty Latina and it’s in her nature to tease men and see what she can get away with. The thing she wants more then your cocj is your validation and I noticed that whenever she goes fishing for it, you give it to her. Right away
She knows she can have you at any time, and this paradoxically makes her want you less. I never see you denying her validation, bieng the one that tease/trolls her or even doing any kind of takeaways. This s after a while skews the dynmamic, take a look at some of my lay reports and look for the difference
Did she respond to your last message
First, to answer your question. No. She hasn't responded. 🤷♂️
The vibe between us was incredible at the beginning. You could even say my game - through text/phone/etc. - was pretty solid. Where the ratio was more 50:50 However, after looking back at the texts, there were a few discrepancies. One thing or another got in the way. Her or I didn't respond or get together because of work or something else. (40:60) So the attraction started to dip. (30:70). With the conversation you read, and one's before, I had the tendency to send good shots of myself. But offering too much value without getting much in return. Now conversation is back to 10-20:80-90. Her messaging me a selfie seemed out of the blue.
It's worth noting she does like a guy who's possessive (check screenshots for confirmation). Although, because she's a "hot big titty Latina" she's... sensitive. Too much or too little of anything can blow the gambit.
Now it's how to initiate conversation, establish compliance, develop momentum, and turn that into dates.
Just bieng her text buddy got too long of bieng “too available” is actually low value. You want her thinkingoh Shit, I hope he likes me” at all times. If you go for a meet up and she plays coy don’t be afraid to call her out. Here’s An example of me doing it
Let’s take a look at the screen shots man
She started to type and then... nothing.
Will re-initiate soon. Figuring out how to in the meantime. Still fairly "green" with text game.
She’s hot! Let’s see a few screenshots leading up to this. I need to get a feel for the vibe
Any reply that's not a punishment is giving her attention which makes it a reward. That reply is a reward if she understands the playful sarcasm, a punishment if she doesn't.
If you wanted to match energy send her a selfie of your own cleavage ;)
