there really is no perfect response. Shes basically saying that she requires more comfort. This one is going to take work for sure. Your going to have to keep bantering and building investment, then more her to text then some voice memos and then face time for a brief session then that will help you get the meetup.

Not bad at texting although you could have set up a little better. Its usually better to use a hook "Do you like wine" and then use her response from that to set up a close.

At least she is thinking about it. I would respond "Do you like wine or weed" and then "Why don't we split a bottle / joint at my place sometime soon" (pick what you feel like / what her preference is)

since she knows you and you probably have mutual friends, she doesn't want to seem like a slut who easily meets up so this resistance here is actually a good thing (she is considering it). If you show her that you are a chill fun guy I'm sure she will meet up, but she might make logistics difficult, just keep posting on here if she makes it hard so we can guide you :)