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Alright, so I have been trying to make plans with this girl I matched with on bumble for about a week now and she claims she’s quite busy.
Last week I said I was free on friday and Saturday, but those days didn’t work for her because she had 2 birthdays. After a little back and forth I suggested 2 other days. This was on Thursday. She doesn’t reply to this message but then Friday night she messages me: “I’m available now.” However, I was already asleep. So now my question for you guys is: what would you guys say?
Just say what’s your schedule looking like. That’s my go to.
That is my go to aswell, however I’m actually quite busy too so that’s why I took this approach. But I’m actually more interested if we can take this as an opportunity to set a solid frame. Because to me that message is her saying. “Yo I want to have sex now.”
How late was it? Seems like you missed a booty call unfortunately. I'd follow up "shame i missed this. Hope I was in your thoughts at least (sly winky emoji)". If I'm not reading this right, and she was just trying to schedule a regular date, I would call out the last minuteness of it "Sorry girl. I have a strict 'no walk-ins' policy ;)"