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For some context, I met this girl off of tinder and her and I hooked up on the first night, but afterward she seemed very hard to reach. I texted her a few takeaways a week apart each, until I said "genuinely didn't take you for the ONS type of girl." She responded back telling me she didn't realize I wanted a relationship but that she wasn't looking for one. Tbh I'm not either, just kind of wanted a FWB but I'm not sure how to say that in a way that doesn't come off as needy or butthurt.
It's a weird text to send when you're not looking for a relationship.
"Not looking for a relationship either. Something casual filled with kinky sex. If you're too nervous, that's okay"
As a side note, in person you may have come across as someone looking for a relationship. Probably why she ghosted after sex
That makes sense. What call-out text would you go with to grab her attention if you weren't looking for a relationship? instead of "genuinely didn't take you for the ONS type"
Well, at this point, I would just be blunt (without being needy or rude as you said.) She made it clear she isn’t looking for a relationship, so you should do the same. She might potentially be down to just have sex with you. I see it as nothing to lose at this point.
