What should I do
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This fine ass Latina is down to come over my Airbnb on Thursday for drinks but I have to pick her up and it's like a hr drive from me and I have to take her back we confirmed everything already but then she sends this message
HER: "But letting you know taking it easy we just getting to know each other no intimacy!I'm not that type of girl
For me, the fun part is building a connection laughing until our cheeks hurt, trying new restaurants, taking walks, and finding joy in the little moments together.Looking for a kind-hearted man with good values, a great sense of humor, and genuine intentions. I believe the best relationships start with friendship, trust, and mutual respect, then grow into something beautiful."
ME:I hear you, and I respect that a lot. I’m on the same page with taking things slow and actually getting to know each other the right way.
What should I do I don't wanna waste gas money on Airbnb etc and she's not dtf what should I do in this situation?
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I think she is likely still dtf, because she is willing to come straight to your place. That is a very good sign. Did you sexualize the convvo at all before that?
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So we've been talking a lot and I could tell like she really likes her baby daddy but she still like text me everyday text me morning and stuff like that
And then today there was kind of a weird mix-up where she stopped talking to me all day and I kind of knew something was up and I texted her on my work number
Like you in j a l used to say to do back in the day where if a girl is acting a little standoffish through text because I could tell cuz I tried to call her and it went straight to voicemail so I could tell she blocked me and she did
And I think what it is is maybe she might be telling her baby daddy that she's talking to someone and now he's trying to act like he's interested so that way she stops talking to me and I think he's trying to bang
Luckily I found an Airbnb extremely cheap near her house lol for like 40 bucks and I'm just going to pick her up and we're going to have drinks at my house quote on quote Airbnb and just chill but she said that she is still down to meet up this Thursday and I have made little sexual combos and she kind of tries to stall out
She still like not offended but I could tell like when I try to make it sexual she tries to like control the combo from getting into a sexual place because I feel like what she's trying to do
Is control her sexuality from her having sex because I think in her mind she knows that if she has sex with another guy that her baby daddy won't want to be with her anymore
And she knows that she'll probably keep her mind open to possibilities of other sexual partners out there we've talked a lot on the phone and she's really down she's hot as fck