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So for the past 2 weeks I’ve been successful with soft closing a girl to come over to my place.
However, when it comes to hard closing, she seems to be flaking.
For example, it’s gotten to the point where I mentioned splitting a bottle of wine, we agree on the which day to meet, but, on the day of the date she ghosts me.
Just yesterday I used Alex’s line, “if you’re too nervous, I’d understand”, and the girl said, “yea, I actually am a bit nervous”. Keep in mind that I haven’t met this girl before in person.
What’s a good reply to that without sounding too needy?
I would try to figure out why exactly she’s nervous. So I would say “Aw. How come”
"Are you worried I have corona?" - You have to obtain the core objection.
Could work. I would phrase it in a more humorous way though “Are you worried I have corona hiding under my bed or something”
I’m inclined to say something along these lines. Just not sure what exactly.
I also have to make it open ended without being too basic and without directly giving her an excuse to pick up (not mentioning corona).
I am nervous too , don't worry we can be nervous together while spitting a bottle of wine at my place 😁😁
The only issue with this is that she already sees me as a confident guy. So saying that I’m nervous would make her less turned on
Don't think logical , it's a playful tease and it works , just try 🤣🤣
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