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So pretty self explanatory but she seems worried that I'm a fake, don't know if its just a shit test or not but other than giving my IG idk how I would verify that I'm real..
Not sure what to do here or if what I wrote works or not, but got me wondering what you should generally do in this situation where she is scared you might be a fake.
She's being extra careful/cautious here - normally doesn't happen but you can easily debunk this. First as to why. 9times/10, the girl is like this because she has had a shitty past experience, so you need to respond with solid reassurance, don't get butthurt etc. I liked the bought followers line but you ruined it a bit with the follow-up "are we judging.." as it makes you sound butthurt.
The easiest thing I do is say something like "Shoot me your number and we can hop on a quick ft" but for here and now, I would adjust and go with something like "Why don't we hop on a quick ft and I'll prove I'm not a 300lbs _____ (insert any race/ethinicity not you) dude"
and if she doesn't respond to that you can go with a simple takeaway "If you're too nervous, I'd understand.." - (only 2-3 days after you've sent the prev. message)
Hope this helps bro. Goodluck.
Alright makes sense, will make sure to try this and see how it goes. Thanks!
Yup always. Lmk how it goes.
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"...Or we can facetime for a minute or two if you're that skeptical"