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M

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M

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So after you have gotten the date and girl has agreed to come to your place for wine? Good to ask this question so then you can state what you are wanting as far as sex and cuddling etc... or should this be done before the date is confirmed to be at your place...curious about this.. thanks!

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avilench . Avatar

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Nah I don’t like to do this in person , puts too much pressure on her

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M

95 Posts (-5), 141 Cmts (+10)

sorry wrote this too quickly. meant to say after girl has agreed to come over for wine but before the date starts should i ask this question? i had it where a girl asked me this after she agreed to come over and told her what i want and she's okay with it. i find on dates where this is not stated maybe they dont go as well. i would never say this in person on the date because like you said too much pressure. also could do this before even we set the date and before doing the hard close so just curious what is better... might not matter but wanted to ask.

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Joe Bee Avatar

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if she's coming for wine, and she actually show's up, no need for you to ask her this. (i think that's what you're asking?). if she asks you this before coming over, then say something close to what alex suggests, "a cool chick with good chemistry... ".

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M

95 Posts (-5), 141 Cmts (+10)

yah but i think shouldnt she know the sexual frame of sex/cuddling before she comes so she knows what this is about? especially if I am using a profile for something other than Tinder where its not as sexual... just wondering

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