Too dickish?

I stopped negging over text

My general rule is to never go hard with sarcasm with people I just met. Female or not, most of the time it doesn't go over well. You can try this out in person if you want to see for yourself. You can give very light obvious sarcasm, but a direct blow like this is too much. Once you meet her in person and you're comfortable, you can get away with a lot more and push the envelope.

Too dickish