Told you are liked as a friend only. Is it worth the time?
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Sooo I just got a message from that girl which is 2 years older, I’m 18 she is 20, that I shouldn’t get offended but she likes me as a friend only and that if I was 2 3 years older she would date me. Is it worth the time trying to flip the things and if yes how?
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I severely doubt that’s the real underlying reason. I’ve hooked up with chicks 10+ years older. We need more context, who is she? How did you meet? Have you gone out with her? Etc
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I got out with her once before a week or so, the date was kinda even, it had her ups and downs, there were times when we laughed there were times where she was just watching her phone. She was looking not to give eye contact she kinda told me about that she doesn’t feel comfortable watching someone in the eyes. Not too much not too little texting but a fault i saw is that maybe only one night when we were talking the topic got a little more spicy otherwise our chat was kinda boring ngl. Something I’m not sure why she was doing is when she was going to the bath and told me before she went to she was sending me photos of her let’s say half her face and a little bit over her tits (just trying to describe u the picture)
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It’s gonna be hard to turn it around, but we can try. Post the last few screenshots
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Yea man she was doing that because she’s a sexual human bieng. I am 98% sure the issue here was that she just wanted a more experienced dominant man to take the lead and make shit happen
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I can to a degree confirm the age thing. I'm 22 and have fucked a few older girls - last girl i rooted was 27, when i was still 21 (turned 22 last week). Usually it's a shit test but even then, i bartend at a nightclub on saturdays, and had a girl all over me, saying im cute and shit (she was only drinking water so it wasnt like a drunk or using me for drinks thing), she asks me how old i was and back then i was 21 and she looked young so i said i'm 23 and she said "oh i was gonna ask if you single but you're too young for me" and i asked how old she is...she says 24. So 1 year difference and that was it, she's completely gone off from me...some chicks are spastics like that with age.
I've found in my experience, it's been girls that are young that won't go into a guy even a year or 2 younger. When they reach like 23+, they're more open to being the older one - given you pass their shit test.
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Update: she cancelled the date with some bs about her dancing training. Thinking about stopping the things with her. I am pissed of being someones dog looking to change my game ffs! Only 18 and have been friend zoned so many times I can’t even count them!
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The old adage is if you wanna get one girl get a bunch of girls. Focusing on a girl that just wants to be friends is going to be coming from a place of scarcity most of the time. I’d just add her on social media and ping her on occasions. You really can’t care if she likes you or not. If you keep her around this can make her attracted. So I’d say at the very most keep her around giving her the bare minimum in attention, if you can. If she’s gonna be in your head cut her loose.
Regardless of what the excuses she gives it all comes down to her not perceiving you as high enough value to sleep with. It will take months for her perception to change. But keeping around she may be lonely one night and need someone to hang out with and you’re her only option. At that point you’d get a chance to recover value in her eyes.
I’ve fucked a ton of girls that friendzoned me. But only when I was in abundance. When you’re in abundance you can throw it in her face and not care what she thinks. Being like “what do you think of these girl We’ve been sleeping together and I kinda like her” then you send her a pic of a girl hotter than her. The common thread with every girl I’ve gotten out of friend zone was that I was fucking girls hotter than her and she knew it.