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Hey guys, I have been seeing this girl for a few months and although she's ready to commit for a serious relationship, I am not so sure. Thing is whenever we have sex, I lose interest in her, and don't even want to talk to her for a few days. Although she has great qualities (puts in effort, intelligent and straight forward etc) but physically she's a 7 at best. My past girlfriends have been better looking and thus I keep dreaming about dating other women. Considering she has great qualities; I am hesitant to let her go but at the same time I keep dreaming about dating better looking women. Any tips / suggestions on how to come to a decision?
I been in the situation where the girl in general is great but not as hot as I want. In general I would just not commit. It sounds like shit but it will always gnaw at you and you don't want to disgruntled.
Don't force it if it don't feel right
Yeah. I think it's better to have a conversation about this with her. If you date down, this is typically what happens. I would still keep options open if you don't feel any other connection with her than sex.
Thanks Alex . Any suggestions, what should I tell her? Chances are if i tell her this, she'll just leave
