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New chick.
I want her to do the things I like in bed. Example: ask/tell her to give head/bj.
One problem is not being sure if the girl will respond positively. Or if it kills the vibe/makes things awkward.
How do you direct/command/call-the-shots in bed in a way where the girl is receptive, craving reassurance from you, and therefore will do what you want?
I’m sure this is more of a long game answer, but I’m curious both the long term changes to make and in-the-moment tips.
If you have turned her on enough and made her feel submissive, you don't even have to talk, you just move her and she'll follow along.
It will only be awkward if you make it sound like you are mad. If you do it in a sexy tone, she'll be more than happy to obey, you can for instance whisper the orders to her ear and reinforce her positive affirmation when she does what you want. That makes them melt
The "not being sure" is what is stopping you. A girl really wants to please you. By you not being sure, it may come across you not being aware of what you like in bed. Hence, that will kill the vibe. Just imagine whatever you say, she will definitely respond positively
I'm not sure I fully get this one.
I just said "suck my dick", "sit in my face", "turn around", "spread your legs" etc. and never ever have I had a girl not responding to that.
Makes sense. I guess it’s an inner game issue then. I feel inadequate to command those. Instead, I may phrase it as a question, like “can you spread.. “ or whatever.
