Tinder Addiction/Sexual Rampage

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I feel like I'm addicted to Tinder right now while simultaneously feeling like I'm getting burnt the fuck out. Up to the point where I don't want to do other shit or I start to go a little crazy or not at ease if I'm not talking to high probability leads

Ever since I started finding the successes I've had from deep fake 2.0 I feel like I'm on a sexual rampage where I'm horny all the time, want to meet up with chicks, close, & have as much sex as possible. I just wanna have sex regularly almost. & Theirs this excitement that comes with meeting someone new & making an LR. This sense of accomplishment almost

I've also noticed it's made me a lot more self-entitled & maybe put a bit of harm on my text game because I'm just going for the close relatively soon. Perhaps this largely has to do with riding that 5 year dry spell as well & just wanting to capitalize on girls being down for that night

I'm also guilty of meeting up with a few girls that I'm not super attracted to, but met my minimum looks criteria due to the amount of flakiness I've had to deal with, or them being high probability leads, as well as my desire to remove porn & get sex in real life instead

If I had a goal in terms of what I want right now it would be just to have 2 girls (Similar to you) that I can see consistently so I can ease off of this sexual rampage & find comfort in knowing I have at least a couple I can see. I get that that's all part of the process but merely just expressing stuff here

Let me know if you have any thoughts or take is here

2 comments

Tobias Ott

what you describe is just the typical sex drive every Dude has. If you enjoy your current tinder experience, then i don't see a problem. I have the same goal as you. Having 2-3 fuckbuddys i see multiple times a week. I guess more than 3 fuckbuddys will be challenging for your dick and time schedule though

I M

What's good man, I see where you are coming from and had some quick thoughts that may help you out.

You're apparently having massive success and getting laid. Don't stress it. Appreciate and have gratitude for it, this is a sticking point for SO MANY. Including myself currently.
Realize where your drive is coming from? Is it JUST for sex? Or is it a sort of validation you are seeking by closing more and more. I would have the same sort of thirst and chase for validation too. Heck I DO right now. My goal is similar to yours in fact. 1., I want to get my notch count to a 100 to prove to myself that an Indian guy (me specifically) from my background and genetics can do it. 2. Get 2-3 regular FWB and just rotate those. 3. Hope for a meaningful relationship coming out of all of these girls.
I ALSO know that part of it is because of my background with my first girlfriend. She didn't love me nor did she have sex with me, and I am ashamed to say it but we were together for 3-5 years (on off). That insecurity and me feeling like a loser from then is one of the reasons for my thirst and the reason why I want to get the notch count and such out of the way. In doing so however I want to ENJOY the process. Not take it as some manic mission in life. So honestly, just journal your thoughts to see WHERE your drive for this external validation is coming from, and whether or not it will help you to get where you need to be in a state of happiness and content in your life.

A short example is the guy that got called out by Chris Cuomo on his new channel. The guy was like me/us, socially awkward guy with no chance with women. Then he started getting approached, then numbers, then lays, then threesomes until he is 1000+. But his thirst could never be quenched because the external validation from these women is NOT what he was seeking. It is is how insecurity and inability to accept himself that is the root cause of the issue here. Just an amazing example of when meditation, journalling and pondering your own thoughts can help you with understanding what you want and why you want it in life.

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I M

What's good man, I see where you are coming from and had some quick thoughts that may help you out.

You're apparently having massive success and getting laid. Don't stress it. Appreciate and have gratitude for it, this is a sticking point for SO MANY. Including myself currently.
Realize where your drive is coming from? Is it JUST for sex? Or is it a sort of validation you are seeking by closing more and more. I would have the same sort of thirst and chase for validation too. Heck I DO right now. My goal is similar to yours in fact. 1., I want to get my notch count to a 100 to prove to myself that an Indian guy (me specifically) from my background and genetics can do it. 2. Get 2-3 regular FWB and just rotate those. 3. Hope for a meaningful relationship coming out of all of these girls.
I ALSO know that part of it is because of my background with my first girlfriend. She didn't love me nor did she have sex with me, and I am ashamed to say it but we were together for 3-5 years (on off). That insecurity and me feeling like a loser from then is one of the reasons for my thirst and the reason why I want to get the notch count and such out of the way. In doing so however I want to ENJOY the process. Not take it as some manic mission in life. So honestly, just journal your thoughts to see WHERE your drive for this external validation is coming from, and whether or not it will help you to get where you need to be in a state of happiness and content in your life.