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I had a public-only date today and I think I friend zoned myself with my behavior.
I've had some public only dates and imo it depends on the type of a public date. Picnics are one of the best. What I usually do is just get-to-know her while building some sexual tension with kino and vocal tonality, and then at the end of the datw amp up the physicality a bit and kiss. Also an important part of public dates is to get the girl invested. If she doesn't have a car never offer to drive the girl home or shit like that because then she will be forced to invest more into the date.
You do picnic first dates?
Yeah, if I know I wont be able to pull her I'll do a romantic picnic date at some place that has a good view of the sunset. It's easy to escalate since you'll be sitting side by side drinking wine. Stop the escalation at the kiss though since you can't pull.
I have taken a few of these dates because Im arrogant enough to think I can make it happen, always regret it.
Sexualizing on public dates is definitely. Hold silences, use innuendo, smirk and eye contact. Learning to calibrate to a girl's responses is the difficult part IMO
You hit the nail on the head with the arrogance and calibration. Plus, the lack of alcohol I feel makes things that much harder. Not sure if that's just me though.