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Got a bit of unique question I guess. I spent some time in US this year and met a chick I liked, I hung out with 5 times and banged 3 times. I live in Toronto and she said that she wants to visit to see me and the city in the future the last time we hung out. I liked this girl but wouldn't date her because of the long distance but want her to visit me in the future. So how should I precede? Last time I talked to her was 2 weeks ago on text two days after we hung out for the last time and before I left home (screenshot included). Since then she's replied to my ig story once and I've replied to hers once and that's it. So basically my question is should I text her once in a while or what would you do in my situation? I'm seeing other girls where I live so it's a big deal if she doesn't visit but it be cool.
Vacation romances tend to fizzle out. Not a whole lot you can do brother. I'd say there isn't much point in trying to keep it warm over a long period of time you should (and probably do) have better things to invest your time and effort into. Focus on making new relationships and don't dwell on the past, by the time the opportunity re-emerges (if it even happens) the investment will be so low either side it probably wouldn't happen anyway. Side note that you didn't ask for, you should change up your text style (watch more of Alex's videos and or LR's) you text like a teenage girl. Best of luck my man.
You're right man. What do you mean about changing up my text style? If you're referring to the emojis n shit in the screenshot that isn't representative of how I text the majority of the time. I rarely use emojis or like messages but felt like since it was kinda like "goodbye text" that I should. If theres other criticisms I'd like to hear them so I could improve. Thanks bruh
Yeah. Might as well make that happen. I don't see a harm
I personally don’t do long distance, and you’re answering your own question. If you don’t see her as anything I would let it ride, however if she has legit plans to come down and has Set a date, at that point you can keep the conversation warm. You have to make that choice though, you can keep things light and flirty but like I said if she doesn’t have a date she’s coming, you basically just have a pen pal until she makes those plans
I would invest my time and energy into women that are closer
Thanks for the in-depth response man. Yea, I wouldn't do the long distance thing. She doesn't have set plans yet but if she were to come it probably be in the summer. I'm seeing other chicks where I live and although I see her as something the long distance just makes that something I'm definitely not willing to do.
