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So this was a pretty chill and casual conversation to start on tinder, I closed after a few texts back and forth pretty smoothly. As you can see the freak fest escalated quickly which I'm thinking " great" but then as you can see it ended dead in water and I with blue balls lol. Where did I go wrong, was it a test? Is it revivable?
Few things man. First of all, you never want to say you haven't had sex in a year. That's definitely very low value to most girls. Secondly, I think theirs a high probability that this girl was not serious about meeting and possibly just trolling you. Very few money actually want to get pissed on and even fewer will admit it to a guy they don't know. Lastly, this was suboptimal closing. Not sure why you asked about her place. You always want to try to invite girls to her place. Check the video I have on YouTube on how to optimally close. In addition, 5 texts in a row is a bad look. I would've definitely played it more cool in the end. You got a bit needy unfortunately.
i'd hit her with a "wow genuinely didn't take you as the flakey type"