Struggling with online dating

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[x] I’ve been on dating apps for a couple years, I’ve accumulated 200-400 matches across all apps but I have only met 3 girls, and it didn’t go far. I’ve created 5-10+ tinder accounts , 5 + hinge , okcupid, Fb dating and bumble accounts and 3+ accounts for apps like POF, BLK, Chispa, and even Badoo. I would like to get more likes , & more quality likes regularly across all apps , then I would like to be able to meet a lot more of these girls that I match with, I honestly am not a fan of doing dates even they are cheap, I essentially just want to invite the girls over and hookup with the goal of becoming long term fuck buddies. For tinder I can get 1 like in 1-1.5 week sometimes more likes. Hinge , it depends, Okcupid it also depends. Bumble I almost never really get likes. Fb dating is the same as bumble. Chispa & BLK can range from having similar results like hinge, but after sometime it becomes more like bumble where the likes stagnate. I’m aware when you’re a newer user you get a noob boost. I’ve tried different methods of texting, from asking for the number first message, to asking to meet up and asking for her availability first message, but I’ve also implemented some lines from the videos that Alex posts. I’ve gotten different results with each approach. I’ve gotten more numbers of girls than number of girls I’ve actually met up with. To wrap it up I want to be able to invite these girls back to my place for sex without doing dates and without texting a lot . Here are the pictures I’ve cycled through while using all dating apps. Because I couldn’t upload all the photos here I instead created a google drive folder for them and here’s the link to it:

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1z09RY6-REwCME-CTg_HtEoQFZpiOGycA

7 comments

You're good looking, dress well for your age, have a nice jaw line, work out, have some decent pics.... You got the basics covered that a lot of guys don't have. When I read your post before looking at your pics, I was expecting you just had crap pics and style...
So, it's just down to your text game then and you don't convert the matches you get. Note, that without paying any of the Tinder Gold etc. you get very few likes unless you're a super hot guy. So, either pay (don't recommend as long as you don't have good text game and can convert) or get better at texting. And for that you've found the right source. Watch all the videos and read threads here. Learn the essence of this game, adapt it a bit to your own style and culture and you should see some more success immediately.

Guy Is a guy

I think some of these are decent. Definitely good looking enough to be getting results. You would do well to find a way to show the physique in a way that looks less posed ie. at the beach, playing basketball, rock climbing gym... Some place someone would conceivably take a pic of you that doesn't look so posed. But yeah, I'm gong to guess it's your text game. You can shoot me or post some screen caps of convos and we can look for themes

chaz

How many back and forth conversations did you get with those "200-400 matches"? that is a more important metric imo

El Fenomino

Haven’t kept track, I’ve gotten responses, I have also gotten some short or moderate convos and very few somewhat long convos. But also a good amount of no responses

Guy Is a guy

Figure out a way to post pics that doesn't include me giving you my email address. But I would say you probably need help on your pics, and help on your text game

El Fenomino

You should be able to view the pictures now

El Fenomino

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