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I’m getting matches thanks to you guys but the next thing is I can’t seem to get hard closure.
I matched with 2 girls and they were down to meet but when I chose a place they would suggest a different location which was more convenient for them.
I didn’t want to frame myself as a beta so I said no and they just didn’t respond anymore.
Is it better to adjust to them in this case or should I hold my ground and find a girl that would invest in coming to where I choose?
Go for the wine close at first. If she's not down for that then meet at a bar closest to your place as possible, so you can pull. If she's still not down to drive there then she is a low-interest girl. You will have to decide whether or not the girl is hot enough for you to drive to her side of town to meetup.
What do you mean by so you can pull.
I am using the wine soft close and they are down but when it comes to choosing the place they tend to chose a place close to them.
Yeah that usually means she doesn't have high interest or views you as high value enough. She would surely make the long drive for a movie star, right?
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Post some screenshot examples man & I'll take a look. But generally speaking, a reasonable compromise does not make you a beta. It's quite often that me & the chick go back and forth a bit on the logistics.
Gotcha. Thanks bro.
Made the hard closure but now is how will I be able to take her to a hotel to have some pop tang.
