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I've been on 5 dates with this chick (matched on August last year), there are good vibes and connection between us and it's not just a hookup up thing. I can tell she's very excited to hang out with me. Whenever I ask for a hangout sesh, she's always down, and her schedule is always free.
During our last hangout, she made a hint of what I should do for her during her bday which is on Feb 3rd - book a room with petals on the floor and bed, with champagne etc. Of course, she said it in a fun way. Now I am not going to do this because it sounds a bit too much, but I think she's telling me that she would like to hang out with me on her bday.
I enjoy hanging out with her and so far, she has checked all my categories for an ideal gf. However, I don't want to move into a relationship very quickly or give her the impression that I am asking for a relationship because I think that would ruin the dynamic that we have.
My question is this: Is getting her a gift on her bday and Valentine's day too much?
I probably wouldn’t get her anything if you didn’t already tell her you were going to. Gifts should be given to your significant other, not someone you’re unsure about/someone who you’ve been casually seeing (who knows she may be seeing other people as much as you, you wouldn’t wanna be the only one getting her gifts
Alright thanks for the input
If she wants to see you on her birthday I would give her a small gift but otherwise no. And if you are gonna hangout on Valentines i wouldnt give her a gift, I would just arrange a nice date.
Ah I see your point. Thank you