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What would you guys say to this? Context was first date went well even though we didn't fuck, we fell asleep on the couch together and she texted saying she "felt safe with me" and since then the texts have been rather dry with me doing most of the conversation initiation while Waiting a day or two between responses. I'd like to overcome this and get her reinvested and turn her on to close next date
what your describing is actually for common in the pick up community. Although it may feel that the date went will, in reality it didn't. Typically, when you can't make sex happen. The women will lose respect. This is whats happening based off of how she is texting you. She doesn't see you as a sexual threat but more of a "nice guy". If you guys fell asleep next to each other then there was very likely potential to fuck. I dont think your going to be able to turn things around thru texting. Texting can work wonders but not when there's a real life "negative experience" in situations like that the frame was already set in person and its extremely hard to reverse it thru messages. I hope this helps man.
Holy shit, that's incredibly helpful! so if you were me would you just move on completely or try to set up one more date to potentially fuck her brains out and cancel a negative experience with a positive one and reestablish sexual desire?
you can definitely try, but i think your going to have a hard time getting the date. But if you can, go for it.
Yea bro, I see where you were going with this girl. You were trying to use Alex’s, line from one of his videos. But then you started get overly logical & supplicating with your texts. Now you gotta re-frame this whole interaction around.
I was trying to avoid overly logical but probably shouldn't have responded logically to her "yea, not my thing text"? What would you say?
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