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I'm dating this girl i like and i want to further things with, but I still go out on a date with other girls (We're not exclusive, she could be seeing other guys), so when she asks me what I was doing X day, should i tell her i was on a date or am i suppose to lie.
What are the pros and cons of both approaches?
Best regards
Good question. Personally, I probably would not directly say I was on a date. I might just make a joke. "Just fighting crime and what not" or something like that. This way you're not directly lying or not admitting that you were on the date. On the flip side, you can just be honest. Especially if you didn't bang the girl. Then it doesn't matter nearly as much
Definitely don’t tell her you were on another date. I would just say, “I was having fun being me” or “I was working on some things around my apartment” both of which are probably true on some level. She is probably seeing other guys as well. Eventually she will bring up being exclusive. Right now your goal should be to figure out if this girl is going to be good for you long term before she brings up being exclusive.
Here's a thing most girls get feelings quicker than guys. She may tell you that she doesn't care when she really does, and that's going to breed resentment and become a pain in the ass. If you suspect that she is in this category then lie would be better, but if she truly doesn't care then you can be truthful to her. Figure out how she truly feels about you seeing others and then make a decision
