Responding to “Why should I pick you”

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How’s: “The question is are you worth convincing”

It’s funny because she has a kid that she strategically left out of her hinge profile that I discovered by looking up her unique name on instagram lol

ANY & ALL feedback is greatly appreciated!

9 comments

oudwin fernand

Gonna go ahead & disagree with Eric here.

My 2c is:

convo is not interesting/emotionally exciting. You just going for the meet up so she is unsure, maybe you are hot but she is not sure she will like you in person
so she is giving you a shit test. & Eric's answer is bad for passing it.

The correct answer here is deny & amplify or agree & amplify.

You shouldn't, Santa put me on his naughty list this year

Because (stupid disqualifying reason) I have a massive Teletubbies collection

Mike Hunt

After I hit the 48hrs waiting period what should be my next move? (Entire interaction in comment below)

oudwin fernand

This chick is fucking annoying. I don't really like your text tbh. It's just not that funny, like I could actually see you having a cosco membership. Anyway humor is subjective. I would wait 3 days not 48h.

Then text & the award for best texter goes to...

Then ask about her day. She asks back, you say blablabla + just missing a little bit of {name} in my life.

She agrees.

You say, we should get together soon

She agrees -> you call her out on being difficult ("not gonna disappear on me again are u?")

If she gives resistance -> give bullshit reason that is funnier than having a cosco membership

Edit: obviously adapt to the situation, that's about how I see it going

Eric D.

To me, the problem here is the context, not the text game
What do you mean by "wine session" ?
On her last answer, she talks about her picking you.... You the only one who knows why she says that...

Usually we (men) invite women on a date, maybe you choose another path to meet this girl (but based on her last answer, your intention towards her weren't clear enough)
And based on the whole convo, she doesn't seem to interested to meet you

You can say something like : "Actually I have already chose you for our date" but it depends on the context before the first text

Mike Hunt

Here’s the entire interaction. Should I voice memo or just text: “Because I have a costco membership”

Charles Perry

My rule is women with kids get a hard pass....unless I'm the father.

Kamil Dobrzański

because I'm your favourite stress reliever/ 5 stars on Yelp as stress reliever

Edward Webb

Why should I choose you?

Fuck if I know dude.

I’d make some joke about pokèmon at point but that’s overkill

oudwin fernand

No way that works on a girl. although it's brilliant. "Because you got to catch them all" xD

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oudwin fernand

Gonna go ahead & disagree with Eric here.

My 2c is:

convo is not interesting/emotionally exciting. You just going for the meet up so she is unsure, maybe you are hot but she is not sure she will like you in person
so she is giving you a shit test. & Eric's answer is bad for passing it.

The correct answer here is deny & amplify or agree & amplify.

You shouldn't, Santa put me on his naughty list this year

Because (stupid disqualifying reason) I have a massive Teletubbies collection

Mike Hunt

After I hit the 48hrs waiting period what should be my next move? (Entire interaction in comment below)

oudwin fernand

Then text & the award for best texter goes to...

Then ask about her day. She asks back, you say blablabla + just missing a little bit of {name} in my life.

She agrees.

You say, we should get together soon

She agrees -> you call her out on being difficult ("not gonna disappear on me again are u?")

If she gives resistance -> give bullshit reason that is funnier than having a cosco membership

Edit: obviously adapt to the situation, that's about how I see it going